**** A FAMILY REUNION....I AM DONE.

This family reunion stuff is for the birds, all my family is is a buch of bull**** ******g ******** I don't want a dam thing to do with these people and that includes my mother.

I don't know why I thought things could or would be better because they never, ever will.

 Lee sorry to hear that the reunion hasn't been going as well as you had wanted.  Thoughts and prayers are coming your way.  It's okay to walk away from family...don't feel bad about that one bit. Take care you and Rebecca that's all that matters.  

April 

Thanks April

Today completely changed my life for good and I am almost certain that I won't be speaking to my mother anymore, and very few of my family members if any.

The sad thing is I never felt like I had a family and coming here just confirms it for me.

So sorry things did not go better.  I wish I could say I don't get it but I know what it feels like just not wanting to be bothered with certain "loved ones".  Its easier to love them from a distance.  Especially when they act as a pack and their group think poisons everyone and everything that tries to connect. 

You love mom and family; wanted to see them; and you did.  Folks have to be willing to meet you half way.  Thats how relationships work.  Nothing you can do if people don't get it. 

Marcia, I honestly think coming here was one of lithe major mistakes in my life. I wish I could fly around the earth and spin it the opposite direction and reset time like superman.

I hate I came here.

i am sorry things didnt work out, i had family members walk right past me or snear at a family party, and i know i looked extra good that day and its not always because they didnt recognize me. i know it hurts but at least you tried, you saw them and now you can move on or just deal with them a little at a time, the ones who truly love and appreciate you will come around..

I am so so sorry to hear that your experience has been horrible.   But, at least you tried & gave them another chance, so it's off of you & you won't have any guilt about whatever happens in the future. 

All families are varying degrees of dysfunctional & unfortunately, we can't chose our families, but God will put people in our lives that can be substitues for them & it sounds like Becca & her family are that for you.
(((((((((HUGS))))))))))

I just found out that two of my sisters are at my mom house defending me and really got into it bad with my mom who is defending the person who attacked me. I did not think they would do that for me but I am so happy to find out they did.

I know my sisters hate to see me cry and they will cut a mother so I can't even imagine what is going on over there.

Well, that's good to hear that some of your blood has your back!!   

Glad your sisters have your back. 

You wanted to give your family a chance and you did.  That's all you can do.  Now you can walk away with no regrets.  You tried your damnest.