Reunion Day 2. Was much better
on 7/16/11 10:29 pm
Well I went to day two of the reunion yesterday and it was not bad. It was a banquet and I was under the impression that you had to dress up so me being me I was like I don't want to dress up and I am so glad I went smart casual.
I wore a pair of black over priced designer jeans and a black button up shirt that kind of dips in the waist, I looked like a freaking coke bottle, I have such a curved in waist and with all these people calling me fat I think it has helped me to appreciate the curves of my body.
I do of course have some drama to report. My cousin who I brew up with, on day one I did not go up and speak to her because I just didn't I was talking to other people, so when she came by I said hey girl and that ***** snubbed me and did not speak so I have not said a word to her since, she avoids me like the plague.
so I am wondering if I should actually say something to her today, I honestly don't have a issue with this girl. Becca says she is oozing with jealousy so much you can smell it on her. I don't honestly know what it is or how to approach her, or even if I care enough to even bother.
MsLee!
I knew you would look slammin' in something fitted with that tiny waist of yours. You have that hour glass figure people envy.
Your family is more dramatic than even mine. I would ask kuz why she's avoiding me and if its cause you didn't have a chance to talk on day one. Then the ball's in her court. She has an opening and she can use it or not. She'll also know you were not ignoring her you were engrossed in other conversations.
She'll have to decide if she wants luv or war. Becca may be right. Your coke bottle figure might be eating her alive.
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On second thought zap her with some kindnessand mention that you both have been so busy talking to other you have not had a chance to chat yet. Like MSW said open the door for her if she walks in cool if not you just keep stepping.
Relationships in general are difficult to maintain but that family ish can be really tough for some of us.
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