Day 1: First thing I hear upon arrival YOU ARE FAT........... SMDH

First off Marcia, I love you girl. LOL. Do you notice every time I am about to cuss you out I say that. LOL.

There is no way I would wear a knit Ny dam thing, heels, or a dam dress. LOL.

But you are right they are plum ass ignorant and I looked better than anyone in that whole dam place, and I am not being conceded either. LOL

Consider the source and let it go. Some times family is the least supportive.  Lean on your family from the board.  I've had comments during weight loss from close family that I was crazy to have been cut on... to you're going to get too thin and look half dead... to oh I see you've gained the weight back, what a waste.  And my favorite... I'm smaller than you and I didn't get cut on.

You have to draw motivation from within.  Don't let these folks steal your drive.  You control how you feel, what emotion you have.  Don't give ignorance the satisfaction from moving you off your mark.
Ignorance is has ignorance does.  And family can be STUPID IGNORANT.

Hold your head high... don't even respond to these folks... that gives them power... take courage in knowing that you are in control.

Hugs!