new dating rule for 2011...

I didn't interpret this to mean excluding black women, but rather avoiding toxic women that don't have their act together.   Dating women who don't have an ax to grind because they've been dogged out by other men.   This woman is confident, competent and not afraid to be herself.  She loves herself first, then she nurtures those around her.  She does not settle.

I love the way you put that So Blessed. Yes, lets take color out of the equation. It should go for all women. Can you give your impression of a healthy man? Again, I look forward to your description....the words you used were very reassuring. Thanks.


P.S. I do wish Donnie would come back and tell us what "he" meant and enlighten us.

Actually, I would use similar words to describe an emotionally healthy man.  

The only thing I'd add is it's unrealistic for women to expect men to approach things the same way that we do.  Men are just different critters.   

I'm still learning...

 MsSoBlessed and MsMD

I think the description of a good man is not far off from the description of a good woman.  Its about being a prson of good character. 

Loved the way YOU put it......SoBlessed