Guess I got too much attention..Hubby left.....

Gloria P.
on 12/24/10 4:08 pm - Ruther Glen, VA
He left July 2010, I am just getting to point where I talk about it in public. He said he left because he couldn't handle other men looking at me. Looking!!!! I guess he preferred someone nobody else wanted or was not interested in. Oh well! I had WLS for me, to improve my health and well-being and anyone that can't relate, well I guess will have to move on.
We discussed this surgery in depth, but I guess he changed his mind. Well I didn't, so who is up for dancing. I am so ready to get out and have some fun. I am not sitting at home getting depressed not me.

Lets Roll! Life goes on! Let move FORWARD.
    
dstgirl2000
on 12/25/10 8:34 am
Keep it moving and live your life.  You deserve it!.....His loss!!!...lol

Happy Holidays!

J
                        
Gloria P.
on 12/25/10 1:10 pm - Ruther Glen, VA
Thank you!
    
Birdman D.
on 12/25/10 7:53 pm - Nappytown
...(j/k)

Glad to see you're moving on...

...be easy on'em


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(deactivated member)
on 12/25/10 9:08 pm
Great attitude. You've got to do you, his loss if he can't handle the fabulous new you.
MSW will not settle
on 12/26/10 12:01 am
That's right girl.  This life you live is for you. 

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mstrip59
on 12/26/10 8:33 am
This is really YOUR time, go for it.
pokerchips
on 12/26/10 8:52 am
Well said.  His loss stay healthy and do YOU!

Change is a Process Not an Event

Molly S.
on 12/27/10 1:44 am, edited 12/27/10 2:13 am - Chicago, IL
1st I want to say, congrats on being under 200 pounds!!!  Excellent progress!!! Keep up the good work!! 

Awesome for you on moving forward with your journey to a healthier woman!!  Too bad your husband could not appreciate the new improved woman you have become!  You sound like you had a lot going for yourself before you lost weight. 

Shame on him he could not accept you now because others now are paying some attention to you. That had to have hurt you deeply, so I am glad you are strong and not letting him sabatoge you. 

Hopefully your story will help many who are suffering with spouse insecurities. I have known many to re-gain their weight because their men could not accept them for who they are. You are an inspiration and should be an inspiration for others who have dealt with this same problem.  Men will have them thinking they have changed and they have the problem when it is them with the issues. 

You rock for saying NO WAY JOSE and moving on with your dream to be healthy and LOOK GOOD!!!  His loss for sure!   Find you someone who can appreciate you for you and who you have become!

I loved your poem also!  You should post it on BAF!  I am sure there are many who would appreciate it. 

       HW 611  Pre-opW 580   LW 302  GW 238         
              

(deactivated member)
on 12/27/10 9:35 pm
OMG same here I think theyre just JEALOUS but I gotta stay on board for me cause im gaining slowly stressing about it we are still together BUT it's always drama am I doing this am I doing that who said this where am I going what am I wearing wow I could write a book good luck to u weight loss is NO JOKE it's a life long battle
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