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AurburnHillsPamela
on 11/26/10 11:11 am
Well first of all I would like to say it has truly been a journey for me with the wls and changes that have occured. My question to u guys is I need some advice on the attention I have been getting lately something im not use to getting( being asked out more)
You know I have been very heavy all my life and now at what 5 6 and 178 pounds size 12/14 is pretty hard for me to handle I guess its because I see the same Pamela at 280 and a size 24womens.
Another concern is I have lost some friends over the weight lost which for the life of me I can't seem to understand......... why can't they just be happy for me!!!!!!!
Well just need some advice and to vent I guess......
boy! I wonder what's going to happen when I get the tummy tuck in april !!!!!!!

I don't know if it's a journey for them or me!!!!!
have made some changes moved in a new three bedroom house
started working out at home now!!!!!
drinking the water and taking the vitamins
in school for nursing
teaching second grade for the first time YIKES!
Loving me more!!!!! me time........
hershey dream
on 11/26/10 11:16 pm - Duluth, GA
 Congratulations on all of the great changes you've made so far.  I'll be 5 years out next month, and I too have lost friends over the years.  But you know what?  I'm glad I did.  Those people were not meant to be a part of my life.

As for the attention....just remember, all attention is not good attention.  Best wishes to you on your journey.
Life is not about making it through the storm....but learning how to dance in the rain.      
KenyaE
on 12/19/12 10:28 pm - Copperas Cove, TX

Hi Pamela,

Congrats on your weight loss journey. Welcome to the "loosing side" tongue-in-cheek :-). I'm sorry that you have lost friends but it is a sad side effect and it does happen. Hopefully you will gain some more new ones.

Hondurian Queen
on 11/28/10 9:27 am - BOSTON, MA
Hello and congrats on your wls journey. I have to agree with hershey . hey girl how are you?
I am 2 years out from the surgery and I too have lost so called friends whom I have had for 20 years and feel as though its there loss. if they were real friends to begin with we would still be friends dont let anyone stop your shine continue success

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