Thoroughly Thursday is BACK!!!

~~Special thanks to Carm for providing the questions & blessings~~

It’s Thursday and the Michelle J's been nominated to be on the hot seat!!!! 

Here's how it will work: A BAF member will be selected each week. They will submit a profile and then the rest of BAF will get to ask all the questions they want while the selectee is on the 'hot seat'. With the hopes that our selectee will cooperate and answer all!!!!! 

It's a great way to get to know someone or just be plain ol' nosy.

So with that said.......go ahead and ask her anything you’d like to.

Real Name: duh..Michelle J.
Nicknames: Mikki
Ethnicity: duh...Black
Born: Chicago, Il
Residing In: Chicago burbs
Sign: Pisces
Status: (dating, playa, etc) bitter, single, spinster!  LOL!
WLS Status: post-op band pt, not happy with my loss and working on funding a revision
Passions: my latest is Bikram Yoga
Favorite Color: don't really have one
Favorite hobby/leisure: reading, playing with my pets, wine tasting
Favorite food: don't have one
Favorite scent: hmm...the smell of the outside after an afternoon rainfall
Family:Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother...and a soon to be born niece on the way! 
Occupation: Nurse 
Personality: ? hmmm...you tell me.
Inspirations: WLS vets that maintain their losses for yrs and Gym Bunnies (I hate to exercise!)
Motto: Life is what you make it
Anything else you want us to know: nope.  ask a question and I will answer, but I know better than to volunteer info
 

Hey Mikki 

1. Dominant or submissive?
2. Bath or shower?
3. Did you have a last meal before surgery? What was it?

That's all for now...but I'll be back! 

Really Wonka?

1) Depends on the situation.
2) Shower
3) Nope I was a super motivated and gung ho patient back then.  Last thing I had would have been either a Carnation Instant Breakfast or Chicken Soup Flavored Unjury Protein

Do you feel the band failed you or you failed the band?

Hey!

Hmmm, thats a good question.  I think the Band failed me 1st.  Its kinda like being in an abusive realtionship.  You can only take so much before you give up hope and are ready to move on.  But I gave the Band a serious effort for 2 fulll years, before I realized I was doing my part, but it seemed to not be holding up its' end of the bargain.

1.  Do you belong to a sorority?  If so which one?  if not, why not?

2.  If you could have your own reality TV show, what would it be called and what would it be about?

3.  If one of your best friends set you up on a blind date and you noticed that the guy was "BUTT-uh-gah-LEE" once you two finally met and sat down to eat; however he was the nicest person that you ever saw, would you continue seeing him after that first date or run and change all of your phone numbers hoping to ditch him?

4.  What's your style of dress outside of the office or J-O-B: Prom Night Fabulous, Thugg Princess, or Classic Casual?

1) Nope. I went to a small Christian college. The Greek experience there wasn't like at larger universities. Plus back then I felt like I wanted my friends to like me for who I am, not because we were a part of an organization together.

2)My life is too boring for a reality TV show, plus I'm not about the drama. When I was doing a serious of internet dating, maybe 'Bridget Jones Hasn't Got Anything On Me'. my friends love to hear the stories about the guys I meet and some of the stupid stuff they say and do.

3)I've been in that situation, just a few months ago actually. I sat through dinner and was as nice as I could be. A couple of days after as we were texting back and forth I just told him I thought we weren't a good match. I know I talked about that date on OH somewhere, I'll see if I can find it for you.

4)Classic Casual for sure.

Hey Wonka,

So glad you brought this back.  I truly missed Through Thursday's.

Anyway, on to Ms. Michelle J,

1.) How many sex partners have you had since wls? 
2.) Protected or Unprotected?
3.) What is your spiritual belief?
4.) Are you going to get a revision?
5.) Why did you self pay?
6.) You ever had sex with someone other than a black man, if so what nationality?
7.)  If you had one wish that you know would come true, what would it be?
8.)  If you had 1 million dollars, what would you do with it?
9.) Have you ever had a sexual encounter with a woman?
10.) Top or bottom?

Thats it,  have a great day!

I missed it too. I was so happy when Carm sent me the questions.

<<<<<< Lower jaw just put a dent in my floor. Your questions...oooohhhh weeee!!!

Wow. Just wow.

1) Not going to put the # up! Safe to say more than one.
2)Ha! Both. There was a serious monogamous relationship in there so lets go with both.
3)I was raised Baptist. I now consider myself more spiritual than anything else. Safe to say I issues with organized religion.
4)I would like to.
5)The job I had at the time covered WLS, I knew I'd be relocating shortly after wards and changing jobs so I followed the steps of what was needed for ins approval, took a loan so I could secure a date faster with the belief that insurance would reimburse me. Safe to say they did not do that.
6)Yes I have. White guys.
7)I'd wish for financial security so I could quit killing myself working multiple jobs and lower my stress level.
8) Pay off my debt. Pay off my parent's debt, including their mortgage so they could enjoy their retirement. Buy a house with a yard so my pets can run around. If somethings left over pay for that revision.
9)Nope
10) Ha! Depends on the day and the person I'm with.

WHEW!