everybody is losing weight so fast but me

Safe to say my love affair with the band ended long ago. The majority of my weight loss was immediately afer surgery before a fil.Knowing what I know now , being self pay I shoulda had the VSG. I could have avoided all the mechanical problems I've had with the band.

we all been in your shoes but as LEE put it STOP worrying it will drive u NUTS it's gonna happen incease your activity level excercise see thats were I went wrong first out I didnt excercise much something is better than nothing

Just wanted to chime in with my 2 cents.  As others have said, u absolutely cannot compare your rate to others.  Your Journey is YOURS and unique to you only.  I had to learn that the hard way.  I too felt like others were losing at a much faster rate than I.  But at the end of the day, the weight came off and I got to where I wanted to be.  Don't let the process frustrate you, just continue on your journey and see it through till the end.

I felt the same way at first too, but then I finally realized I am not like everyone else.  I am me.  So with that said.  You are blessed that you have lost 60 pounds and have kept if off.  You should celebrate what you have accomplished.  We all go through a plateaus.  What works for me is to set small goals, something that is realistic and not crazy.  Try to make yourself a small goal and in no time that weight will come off.  Good luck and keep up the good work...you can do it!