I need your opinion.....sorry, kinda long
I'm jes sayin'! Why do we always think we have to 'settle' for someone who may very well bring misery into our lives? Why is it that some women feel that they have to have a 'piece' of a man, rather than having no man at all!, and then be bored as heyll out of their minds for the rest of their lives? Uh...yep, I'll pass!
I say - VALUE SELF, FIRST! I can tell you that because I've been there/done that. I can tell you that because I had to learn how to love, honor and respect Donna over and above anyone else, especially a man!
Besides, there is so much FREEDOM in being single! Yeah, I know I got married 4 months ago - but the two years I was LIVING ALONE...CHILD LEMME TELL YOU - I HAD A B-A-L-L!!! I LOVED being able to say "nope" when I felt like it! I loved being able to tell a man "I am not interested in a long-term relationship - this here is for FUN and KICKIN' IT only!" At one point, there was a guy that I was crazy about, but even he ended up showing his true, lying, punk ass colors and I had to shut his ass down with a quickness! (I CANNOT STAND A LYING ASS MOFO...NO WAIT...I CAN'T STAND A MOFO WHO THINKS HE IS SLICK!)...Hmm...wonder where he is now? Oh wait...I DON'T GIVE A FLYING HEYLL!
Whew...anyway, lemme get back to what I was saying - LOL! The man I married 4 months ago - who happens to be my sons' sperm donor - you should ask him about me - that man fell HARD in love with me after I changed ME! He honors and respects me for the ****** that I am now (go figure!)...He treats me VERY well...let him tell it - if I ever leave...he's going with me!
Kim, do you, hon...enjoy the time...if you hang with these two brothers...go ahead - you are single and you do not have to accept any ultimatums on your singledom! Do it when YOU are ready!
NEXT CALLER!!
DD
I say - VALUE SELF, FIRST! I can tell you that because I've been there/done that. I can tell you that because I had to learn how to love, honor and respect Donna over and above anyone else, especially a man!
Besides, there is so much FREEDOM in being single! Yeah, I know I got married 4 months ago - but the two years I was LIVING ALONE...CHILD LEMME TELL YOU - I HAD A B-A-L-L!!! I LOVED being able to say "nope" when I felt like it! I loved being able to tell a man "I am not interested in a long-term relationship - this here is for FUN and KICKIN' IT only!" At one point, there was a guy that I was crazy about, but even he ended up showing his true, lying, punk ass colors and I had to shut his ass down with a quickness! (I CANNOT STAND A LYING ASS MOFO...NO WAIT...I CAN'T STAND A MOFO WHO THINKS HE IS SLICK!)...Hmm...wonder where he is now? Oh wait...I DON'T GIVE A FLYING HEYLL!
Whew...anyway, lemme get back to what I was saying - LOL! The man I married 4 months ago - who happens to be my sons' sperm donor - you should ask him about me - that man fell HARD in love with me after I changed ME! He honors and respects me for the ****** that I am now (go figure!)...He treats me VERY well...let him tell it - if I ever leave...he's going with me!
Kim, do you, hon...enjoy the time...if you hang with these two brothers...go ahead - you are single and you do not have to accept any ultimatums on your singledom! Do it when YOU are ready!
NEXT CALLER!!
DD
I choose to love myself, live life to the fullest, and encourage others to liberate themselves!
Hey homestate :)
I am in agreement with Donna and the others who are suggesting that you keep your options open and keep looking.
I say that because after 18 years as a divorcee (serial dater).......... and perhaps maybe feeling like I was in a committed relationship maybe 3 times. I still just did not feel the chemistry and love that I feel in my current relationship.
I have no desires to be with anyone else other than my current (baby) beau !!
The chemistry and love speaks for us.
So I say this to say that perhaps when that
"right one" come into your life, you will have no questions as "to who to choose" :).
Love and blessings Kimmie :)
I am in agreement with Donna and the others who are suggesting that you keep your options open and keep looking.
I say that because after 18 years as a divorcee (serial dater).......... and perhaps maybe feeling like I was in a committed relationship maybe 3 times. I still just did not feel the chemistry and love that I feel in my current relationship.
I have no desires to be with anyone else other than my current (baby) beau !!
The chemistry and love speaks for us.
So I say this to say that perhaps when that
"right one" come into your life, you will have no questions as "to who to choose" :).
Love and blessings Kimmie :)
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Hello My friend
I think you should do what is best for you. as long as you arent tied in to a one on one relationship with either . I dont see why you couldnt date both. be honest with them both but kim make sure you choose the one you really care abou..t never go by how much money one has . which I know you wont follow your mind and your heart good luck and be blessed
I think you should do what is best for you. as long as you arent tied in to a one on one relationship with either . I dont see why you couldnt date both. be honest with them both but kim make sure you choose the one you really care abou..t never go by how much money one has . which I know you wont follow your mind and your heart good luck and be blessed
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