Open letter to Montana Fishburne...

# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 8/14/10 6:18 am
 And what, exact, f'edupedness are you referring to?

If you can list it - I can answer you specifically. 

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Madame
on 8/15/10 1:23 pm - Oxon Hill, MD
Nope - I sure can't list it.  I don't keep a running account of all my f'edupedness and I sure don't have head space to tick off anyone else's. 
But I know in "MOST" of mine I really honestly can't blame anyone but myself ~ that's if I'm gonna be "Really Real" with myself. 

I can't believe that you can sit there and blame your major life mistakes soley on your mother.  Now I have heard all about your Momma and I know she is a very colorful woman ~ but she did not do it (whatever IT is) You did.  You sound like you will beg to differ with me on that and I am waiting to hear the stories.

My point is that people make choices - be they good or bad - and those choices are theirs alone.

Lawrence Fishburne  did not set his daughter out there like that (buck shot butt and all) What Real Father would?  It's not his fault.  As parents we do what we can and what we feel is right - there is no real guide book on this job.

IMHO - She Embarassed herself, all by herself. OK - maybe she had the help of the camera man and director cause dayumn  somebody should have yelled "NOT THAT SHOT - OH HELL TO DA NO BOBBY.  FIX THAT AZZ ~ MAKEUP!!!!!!"
I feel sorry for her family, she disgraced them, but they will get over it and her 15 minutes will quickly count down to 0 and she STILL will NEVER be a STAR.  Larry, however will be filming again in a hot minute.
Peace & Blessings,   Sharon
6 years and counting
# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 8/15/10 3:13 pm
 Who said she made a mistake?  I didn't - porn is legal. 

The issue, as I see it - and the 'failure' is that she's used her father's name and fame as a springboard.  There are many others out there that have done things totally against the grain of their upbringing WITHOUT dragging their family's name thru the dirt.  

She could have easily made the contract rider specific to NOT mention her father and could have happily ****** buck shot and all on camera - with no one the wiser.  Had she TRULY intended for porn to be her 'business' - this would have been the better approach. 

Whatever I have or may do in my life - one thing is FOR SURE - nothing negative has been PUBLIC and in my mother's name.  THAT she taught me EARLY on - I'm all for kids being total **** ups - but you don't get to drag your parents in it on purpose.  

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(deactivated member)
on 8/12/10 3:11 am


                                        Hello, Websters Heavy Dictionary Users Club?!  Uh.  Yeah.  I think we have one of your members over here using some of those $10 words y'all are fond of like "custodial," "responsibility," and "albeit" 'n junk.  No we understand her when she speaks but with our lack of a translater these days we're about as lost right now as R. Kelly is in a bathroom without a warm body present to absorb his fluids.  Yeah well most of the time she's cooler'n da fan but whenever I suspect she's had a liquid lunch then out comes the big words like friggin ' Jeopardy answers.  Okay, I'll hold... 



ShayZ
on 8/12/10 3:38 am - Somewhere, TX
Somebody pass me that dayum vaseline cause it's on now!

I know that a man such as you, who expresses himself so eloquently, is not questioning my loquacious nature.  I must have misinterpreted this post.  Surely, this is an apparition of some sort because since when did responsibility become a $10 word?

Is that what's wrong with this world? It's not that we (and by we I am bequeathing that title to someone other than myself) lack the ability to know right from wrong but lack the ability to read.  How could I have missed that there are those amongst us who never made the leap from ebonics? 

I apologize my brotha, let me say it in a way your kind can understand.

Peeps in this f'd-up world need to get dey shyt together and stop fingerin every other mofo fo dey issues. 

And while dey at it; pick up a fuggin thesaurus!
Don't start none; won't be none!
And btw, you are so full of it, LOL
(deactivated member)
on 8/12/10 4:24 am, edited 8/12/10 4:30 am
How could I have missed that there are those amongst us who never made the leap from ebonics? 

Hi my name is Double_Ayy! and eye's be's ebonically challenged 'n stuff.  LOL 
Just messin with ya. 



ShayZ
on 8/12/10 4:51 am - Somewhere, TX
It's all good.

When I get on my high horse I flashback to being spelling bee champ. LOL, its a 30 year-odd phase I am going through.
prayinghard2day
on 8/12/10 5:48 am, edited 8/12/10 7:01 am
I do feel sorry for Mr. Fishburne and his family. He has created a wonderful legacy through his works on screen, on Broadway as well as now on television.  The work he has done serves as an example to his children of what it means to master your craft.  He has totally mastered the craft of acting, he has studied and he has taught, he has been at this for a lifetime.  I am almost certain that if he saw an honest effort on his daughter's part to be an actor and there was any evidence of true talent within her, he would have assisted her to do it the right way.  This is an issue of rebellion on behalf of a silly little girl plain & simple . 

How in the world he can be blamed for this is completely beyond my comprehension.  We as parents are responsible for raising our children the best that we can by teaching them right from wrong, providing them with a moral compass and providing the best example we can through our lives.  But as a parent of two adult children I can tell you from experience it's a crap shoot! A shot in the dark!  It's like Forrest Gump said, life is like a box a chocolates!   You can do the best you can do and they still get grown and sho' their a$$3s, having people who don't know you shaking their heads with the 'tsk, tsk, tsk' look on their faces. As a divorced parent, I was often playing the role of both mother & father and I know I messed up sometimes cause I'm fallible, but am I responsible for every mucked up thing my grown behind children do? In the words of Whitney Houston - Hell To The Naw!!  And neither is Laurence Fishburne.

So what that child was thinking about doing this at 16, she just might have been doing it for free behind the scenes then.   But I'm pretty sure Larry wasn't in her ear telling her how well suited her body was (or wasn't in this case) for p*rn.  Just like he wasn't in that bathroom telling her to beat the crap outta her ex boyfriend new girlfriend.  SHE obviously has issues, some of them may possibly connected to her relationship with her father, some may connected to her mother, some may be connected to somebody teasing her in the 3rd grade!  Who knows?!?

I agree that she shoulda had her buck shot behind fully clothed on some therapists couch instead of showing out on some XXX rated fiasco. But the fact of the matter is that SHE made the choice to do this. 

Laurence Fishburne was ahead of the game compared to a whole bunch of daddies in America on two accounts; #1 - HE HAD A JOB & #2- HE WAS PRESENT IN HER LIFE. 

He already has to deal with the shame of knowing his buck ( pun intended) naked daughter is on film doing the nasty, why blame it on him?? 


(deactivated member)
on 8/12/10 10:49 pm
This is an issue of rebellion on behalf of a silly little girl plain & simple. 

  I would agree with that.  Sure.  Now let's whup her butt and send her somewhere for proper training.  We don't need anymore negative stereotypes in the black community.
LEE
on 8/12/10 7:42 am
My mom raised 10 kids,  some of use were good, some bad.  I being the youngest girl was an absolute angel,  while my younger brother is a dam crack head,  shoot some of us were good and went renegade.

Your parents do what they can to raise you right, but I sure don't blame my parent  for my rebel brothers and sisters just like I don't blame Lawrence for his pimply ass daughter doing porn.
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
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