Hey folks w/SOs
*disclaimer this is in no way a braggin post just wanted real feedback* yea I've read a few back posts LMAO
I'm a year and a half out from surgery and I am completely happy with where I'm at now. I have been pretty steady for the last 8 months or so at 162-172. Wearing a solid 10, sometimes a 12. My husband is also very happy with my exact size. Since looking at plastics my weight has kinda shifted and my body looks good so I'm not looking at plastics at this time. I would prob only get a boob job when/if the time comes. So you say...what's the problem? The problem is now my stinkin 10s are getting loose. Not seeing much difference in the scale but I went and tried on some 8s and they fit better than the 10s. Ugh. (Full closet of 10s) Well now hubby is begging...please please don't lose any more weight. Mind you an 8 is not super skinny by no means, but he thinks so. Soooooo.....question is did any of you compromise on size for your significant others?
(I'm going to try and stay a 10....you should see my closet lol)
Well here's us last week at the Jilly and Maxy concert
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
I can not seem to break past 186 so I do not know what it feels like to steadily lose weight/inches. I weigh about 194 right now. My SO wants me to reach my goal weight of 175-180 so *I* can be happy about my journey. He has definitely commented and said that he loves my hips and booty. I really have not had to worry with losing in this area because the hips/booty hangs on. If it were not for the hips and booty I could be in a solid 12 but I have to get the 14 to accommodate these "assets" LOL! Well I hope to be somewhat in your position real soon when I get my head on straight and start using my tool again. We wanted so badly to see Jill and Max when they came to Dallas but we were saving for our VA vacation. I can not see your pic here at work but I will check it out at home.
People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
Y'all look so sweet together.
Regarding your question, my husband is happy as long as I'm happy. He is my biggest supporter. When I told him I wanted to lose a few pounds, he volunteered to go walking with me. We met before I reached goal. I was about 40 pounds heavier then. He treated me like I was cute then and still does now.
He really has been good with my weight loss. I will never forget the look in his eye and he cheered me on at this 5k from the sidelines. I knew before surgery that he didn't like thin women. When we were first dating I was around 220, which he liked..........262 not so much lol. We're both liking my size now. I asked him what would happen if I got down to a 4. He said he get a tube and put milkshakes down my throat when I slept LMAO
Awwww black love!
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
Thanks Babe!
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
go on and replace that wardrobe with them 8's. while you're at it, box up them 10's and send 'em my way...
what?!?!
ima pay for the shipping, geesh
TRUE LOVE DOES NOT COME BY FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON BUT BY LEARNING TO SEE AN IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY
"If you want to go forward, you put the car in D. If you want to go backward, you put the car in R." ~ President B. Obama
~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!
SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!