Whats worst in your opinion???
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For me its getting to goal and ******' gaining...... especially if you changed out your wardrobe because you were feeling confident about having gotten to weight and now that you gained you gotta go buy shiot all ova again ughhhhhhhhhhhh sorry for the rambling I'm feeling some type of way right now.....LOL
Girl you know I can relate.....Im back to laying on the bed and sucking it in to get my jeans on......the ones that used to slide on with ease. That mess hurts.
What you gone do? When do we say ENUFF? When do we get fed up enough to get serious again.........when its too late and we looking for surgery #2.....ohhhhh hell to the Nooooooo.
My baby called talking about what kind of icecream for tonight...I said NONE ( with attitude) and I meant it
I missed you girly, now this place is starting to feel and look a little more like home.
Bring em out, bring em out. Like my boy T I said.
In life, and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up. 
Hey PrettyPlum!
For me I'd say that gaining and not being close to goal because that's what I'm living right now. I've gained about 10 pounds from my lowest weight but even at the lowest I still needed to lose another 30-40. I really don't have an excuse for it which is probably why I needed the darn surgery in the first place.
When you find the sweets "deprogrammer" let me know girl. I'll be in line right behind you!!!
~Telaya~
Girl I used to get one Domino sugarcube every day in head start, after we woke up from our nap time and I swear that was the beginning of the end for me when it came to sweets.
I remember waking up early before my other classmates just to get on line first to get the thing. Can you imagine how delicious that piece of pure sugar tasted in my little fat face.
I was only 4 and I was already a fiend.....SMH!!!! But Imma beat this sucker for it takes me outta here. Heeeey I got an idea.....
lets put on our helmets and deactivate these sweet tooths like the wonder twins used to do.
I wi**** were just that easy. Many , many blessings!
In life, and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.
PrettyPlum I have not reached goal but been close and then gained some, so that just sucks.
My expectation was to reach goal with the ability to gain a few and still be satisfied with my weight loss. However I expected to have that accomplished by now. NOT. I've not given up on my band.
Lately it has just been MY BAD. 
Don't plan to give up sweets just control my intake if there is such a thing. 
With 
I will succeed.
HW: 280 - LW: 190 - GW - 180
Unfilled 8/15/11 - WT: 209
1st Fill 11/29/11 - WT: 215.5 - 3cc
2/20/12 - New Goal - Get n Onederland
2nd Fill 4/26/12 - WT: 224.0 - 3cc
Z
All I can say is that it is a NEVER ending journey. I am over three years out and I am not a gambling person but I would have bet you a $100 that I would have made it to goal by now. My goal is 180 and an DREAM goal of 175. Back in January I weighed in at 185.6. Now...194.6. I am not that far away...I just don't seem to want to do the work anymore. I was supposed to at least be back under 190 before our vacation to VA next week...NOT! I will not give up...just on hiatus for now...Hang in there my friend!
People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown
Well for me goal weight!! I have reached goal several times gained 5 or ^6 lbs and went back to goal. Now I'm stuggling again during my BDay month I did the fool bad food choices!!! But I'm recommiting myself this week too doing better!!!
Just jump back on bored you know what it takes!!!
Love ya
Red
Hey Plum
This is such an interesting question--especially since I've been pondering it myself for the last week or so--ever since I saw Cookie's re-focus posts.
I never reached goal, but at 6 years out I've never stopped pursuing it either. I am 29 pounds from my surgeon's goal and about 60 from my own. I know several people, including a few in my work building who have re-gained--one of them re-gained 100 pounds! I really hate to see that, but sometimes I'm glad that I'm still pursuing my goal as opposed to re-gaining. (they both SUCK! LOL)
And speaking of re-gain, my weight has NEVER been stable anyway--I fluctuate between the same 6 to 8 pounds all the time, not sure why (water retention?)
I do need to figure out how to get rid of this last chunk though...
