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Whats worst in your opinion???

PrettyPlum
on 6/9/10 5:11 am
Hey BAF'er, FAB'er and whatever we are calling ourselves these days....

I got a question concerning weight gain.......

I read that alot of folks have added on a few lbs...myself included but I was wondering whats worst....gaining a few after hitting your goals or gaining a few and never even being close to your goals

Im still nice & chunky for all its worth.  And Im kinda mad about it too cause shoot I had surgery almost 4 yrs ago........one would think that I would have a closet full of size 10's by now at least. 

I know that everyone is accountable for their own actions when it comes to our tools and that there is no cookie cutter results but geez is all Im saying. Im feeling kinda in the dumps about it.  Went to a new doctor and he suggested another procedure......either the sleeve or the DS.....but Im thinking ok...you get an easy  30G's from my insurance and I still dont get a guarantee that Im'ma be skinny  this time around.  Thats not cool to me.  So Im back here trying to get support  like everybody else cause clearly  another surgery isnt the magic trick or stick.    Im in search of a new brain chip or something. I need to be deprogrammed not to love sweets as much as I do. 

What do you say about your journey,  about  MY journey about anything pertaining to weightloss and keeping it going.......????

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

MSW will not settle
on 6/9/10 5:27 am
I'm not far enough along to say which is worse.  Hpofully I'll never know the answer.  However, in just 'listening' to the long term folks I know that 1.) many re gained or never made goal by there own behavior and 2.) revisions have their place for people who dilligently work their program yet do not reach goal or have re gain.  

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PrettyPlum
on 6/9/10 5:42 am
I hope you never find out either OA KCB....really I do.

Im owning up tp my part in this slow weightloss......my doc would like to convince me that Ive reached my max with the band....but ummmmm I know thats not true.   I could get a revisition Im sure....but then I would be at the same crossroads.  Gotta get serious about being serious like I was before and I will.  Im feeling this serious tude with myself that I cant shake. 

Thanks!

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Jus ChanJ N ME
on 6/9/10 5:27 am
Hey Sweetiepie:  All I can say is DO YOU!  If you want to get another surgery, do it.  If not, keep pressing forward.  To me, its not about being skinny anymore, its about getting to optimum health and not being on a walker, cane or a wheelchair when I am 70 years old (like my parents are).  I want to be able to enjoy my children and my grands(hopefully).

I just want to be healthy....I just want to be happy...Its not about the numbers anymore.  It took me a long time to get to this point but I am glad I am here.  I know skinny unhealthy people.  So skinny and numbers arent so important to me anymore.  Its about a healthy lifestyle and if God is gracious enough to let me live a long happy life.

Love ya and God speed in whatever you decide to do.  I will continue to support you.

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PrettyPlum
on 6/9/10 5:44 am
Treena, you know what to say to make me feel encouraged and much better. Thanks

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Hugga76
on 6/9/10 5:28 am
(((((((Plum)))))))

Where you been gurl.

IMO not ever reaching my goal and then gaining would be worse.  I would at least be able to say that I know how it feels to have at least accomplish the goal.
Right now I'm still fighting the good fight.  I'm 40lbs. away from my goal and I refuse to believe that I can't at the very least get closer to goal.

This summer I'm trying new things to break out of this rut.  I bought a bike and will be commuting to work a few days per week (weather permitting).  I'm also looking into rollerblading lessons in central park (care to join me neighbor)? lol

I'm really just looking to adopt an active lifestyle because my couch is just too comfortable and my ass will spread if I continue to sit on i****ching tv and eating jalapeno chips.


Anyone else in the NYC area who would like to join me this summer in central park?...let's roll.

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PrettyPlum
on 6/9/10 5:56 am
hey Hugga, hugga....

I spend too much time on facebook when my booty needs to be at the gym or walking or sexing or something physical.

Girl and dont start me on them chips.  I used to like flavors now I will gobble down a plain bag anytime...so that means that the fat girl in me is getting less and less picky.  Not good

I know your right, not even getting to goal and gaining.......its like watching a never ending  nightmare . 


Bikeriding in the park sounds like alot of fun.  I just need to see myself there. 

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

MzCookie Luscious
on 6/9/10 5:40 am - Savannah, GA

NOT getting to goal weight and re-gaining is the worst!

My lowest was 152.  Then, I had that devlish plastic surgery on my thighs and it has been hell every since.

I never reached my goal of 145 lbs and at this point, it doesn't seem like an option for me.  I will be happy at 160 (I think).

PrettyPlum
on 6/9/10 6:11 am
So Cookie,  you were basically there.....just 7 lbs shy........that has to be tough. Dont give up on your dreams lady....... 

My goal weight and my lowest actual weight was like worlds apart.......accurately speaking 70 lbs off the mark.  I just couldnt get my head and body to stay in the game.......I think the pressure became too much. My body and dreams were going down paths that emotionally I couldnt handle.  If that makes any sense. 

Not sure how to fix that part, but I know I have to get back to putting my health first and let the rest figure itself out.  We can do it........along with everybody else!!!

 

In life,  and especially on this journey there are sure to be days when you falter and give in.......just remember to never give up.  

 

 

 








 

Soul Flower
on 6/9/10 5:46 am

Hi Plum.

I will not elaborate but IMO getting revised to the sleeve was the best decision that I could've made. I regret waiting as long as I did.

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