Where is the support???
I have been a "lurker" for 2 years before I got my surgery on May 25th...
Congratulations! 
Now lemme see if I got this straight.... you yourself were a lurker for 2 years you say and then you had WLS. Now that you've successfully joined the loser's bench you want folks to leap out from behind the shadows and support you and everyone else on here?
Wow! That's special.
Congratulations! Now lemme see if I got this straight.... you yourself were a lurker for 2 years you say and then you had WLS. Now that you've successfully joined the loser's bench you want folks to leap out from behind the shadows and support you and everyone else on here?
Wow! That's special. 
Thank you! Yeah I was a lurker..I was sooo on the fence about having this surgery...I had so many questions and thoughts running through my head about so many things I could not get things straight! I was afraid about leaving my six kids, about just dying in genaral...
I did not just start posted the day I had my surgery...I have been asking questions and posting since 2007 under the name feeln2prudy...
And I am not saying for people to just jump out of the "shadows" for support..I am just simply saying that we are all here for support and to get our questions answered, even the "lurkers"...right?
WOW...
I really don't understand why there is a problem with asking for support and where did it go. You guys act like I asked you to pay my bills or something..LOL...But I am just saying that I love this board, I would not have joined twice if I did not. I love the Black American board...I can honestly say one of the best things I ever done was come here. I am sorry if I offended all of you by asking where the support was not only for myself but for others they may need it, that was not my goal.
I will not ask again here, I'll go back to my "lurking" mode..LOL...
I did not just start posted the day I had my surgery...I have been asking questions and posting since 2007 under the name feeln2prudy...
And I am not saying for people to just jump out of the "shadows" for support..I am just simply saying that we are all here for support and to get our questions answered, even the "lurkers"...right?
WOW...
I really don't understand why there is a problem with asking for support and where did it go. You guys act like I asked you to pay my bills or something..LOL...But I am just saying that I love this board, I would not have joined twice if I did not. I love the Black American board...I can honestly say one of the best things I ever done was come here. I am sorry if I offended all of you by asking where the support was not only for myself but for others they may need it, that was not my goal.
I will not ask again here, I'll go back to my "lurking" mode..LOL...
Wait - hole up - you changed your screen name?????
Awwww heeyyyylll - see - that makes things even MORE confusing!!!!
If I come back on here under, say, 'LovinJesus' - you think folk will respond to me the way they do now? NOPE! We make 'marker's in our head based on folks' screen names.
Nothing wrong with posting - but you gotta already know after 2 years..... that you WILL get a mix of responses when you post something like this.... *RIP Gary Coleman* If you wanna act like you ain't know.... all Imma say is.....
WHATCHU TALKIN BOUT WILLIS????????
Awwww heeyyyylll - see - that makes things even MORE confusing!!!!
If I come back on here under, say, 'LovinJesus' - you think folk will respond to me the way they do now? NOPE! We make 'marker's in our head based on folks' screen names.
Nothing wrong with posting - but you gotta already know after 2 years..... that you WILL get a mix of responses when you post something like this.... *RIP Gary Coleman* If you wanna act like you ain't know.... all Imma say is.....
WHATCHU TALKIN BOUT WILLIS????????
Well, you're Deon C now - no way to connect those two......
Just like when the Facebook share debachle happened and everybody jumped ship - Salty Pickle and a few others switched up and we had to do a Witness Protection program type deal on em - even folk on the R&R board questioned me after I went incognegro for a min.........
Just like when the Facebook share debachle happened and everybody jumped ship - Salty Pickle and a few others switched up and we had to do a Witness Protection program type deal on em - even folk on the R&R board questioned me after I went incognegro for a min.........
I've always had a problem with lurkers/trolls/etc... so don't pay me any attention. 
I am sorry if I offended all of you by asking where the support was not only for myself but for others they may need it, that was not my goal.
I don't think we were offended at all. However, if you've been on the board for over 2 years you should know that we all have a "thing" about some individuals on here residing in lurk mode or not supporting anyone at all in general and then they just pop up
one day with a new pic spread of themselves like we were all around here waiting with bated breath for the latest issue of "dat chick/dat ninja" to hit the newsstands. We support but that lurking **** is played in my opinion.
I will not ask again here, I'll go back to my "lurking" mode..LOL...
No need to take it personal and definitely no need to run back to lurk mode.
I am sorry if I offended all of you by asking where the support was not only for myself but for others they may need it, that was not my goal.
I don't think we were offended at all. However, if you've been on the board for over 2 years you should know that we all have a "thing" about some individuals on here residing in lurk mode or not supporting anyone at all in general and then they just pop up
one day with a new pic spread of themselves like we were all around here waiting with bated breath for the latest issue of "dat chick/dat ninja" to hit the newsstands. We support but that lurking **** is played in my opinion.I will not ask again here, I'll go back to my "lurking" mode..LOL...
No need to take it personal and definitely no need to run back to lurk mode.
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