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MIDDLE MAN
on 5/6/10 12:01 am - GA

OK IM SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE TELLING ME NOT TO LOOSE ANY MORE WEIGHT. LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE. THE ONES WHO TELL ME NEED WORK AND AINT TRYING TO MAKE IT HAPPEN. WE ALL KNOW WHERE WE WANT TO BE AND I AINT THERE YET. IM WEIGHING 180 BUT I HAVE TO GET TO 170 FOR A CUSHION ZONE. IM ON A MISSION AND CANT STOP TILL I GET THERE.DO SOME OF YALL GET THAT SAME ISH COMING YOUR WAY??

                                                     ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                      SEIZE THE MOMENT!! LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
                                                     125 TOTAL LOST

Covahboy
on 5/6/10 12:18 am - Euclid, OH

OMG bro they really on yo back hard.... Man I hear that sh*t all the time BUT like you said you know where you want to be... Now everyone tellin me I don't need a tummy tuck BUT I know how I feel when I look in tha mirror... Do you like I said before.... And you sure will need a cushion zone... Trust me on that one...

I'm living this surgery and not letting the surgery live me...

ZeeBaby !
on 5/6/10 12:28 am - Columbus, OH

RNY on 06/03/09

I TOTALY AGREE, THOUGH I HAVENT GONE THROUGH THIS YET BUT I KNOW IT'S COMING!

YO GURL ZEEBABY!!!

MSW will not settle
on 5/6/10 12:30 am, edited 5/6/10 12:31 am

Even one doctor is giving me grief. Thinks the surgeon's goal is too low and 'ideal' weight just crazy. She is slender, looks to be well within the normal bmi range. Why shouldn't I have that too?

I'm with you on wanting some cushion to work with. A normal bmi has to be my max so I'm not freaking when I fluctate a few pounds. Everyone's got an opinion but only one of us lives in this body. I get to make the rules.

MSW Roux-En-Y Gastric Bypass: Eat sensibly & enjoy moderation

Links: Are you a compulsive eater? for help OA meets on-line Keep Coming Back, One Day At a Time Overeaters Anonymous

LV'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.

(deactivated member)
on 5/6/10 3:32 am, edited 5/6/10 3:33 am - Fair Play, CA

RNY on 09/15/04

MM! Tell them fools that you are not changing your health related goals for no acting role....you can get plenty of other acting gigs I am sure. YOu have skillz!!! I know that I am making a HUGE assumption but I bet a alot of those negative comments are coming from your cast mates and other folks in that circle. I have seen you on screen and I was wondering how your weightloss would impact this area of your life. I mean ....you played a BIG mean looking dude in a lot of your roles. It's not as if a more lean and fit dude can't play an intimidating part. They are just stuck on seeing you that way. They are the ones that gonna need to make the adjustment. Tell those jokers to jump off.... Your health is more important. In the meantime....look for other roles that will give you space to breathe and be yourself. If I am WAY off base, I apologize in advance! I for one am so happy for you and your accomplishments! Congrats on your success!

MIDDLE MAN
on 5/6/10 4:42 am - GA

RNY on 04/22/09

yeah them to md but imma keep it moving.

                                                     ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                      SEIZE THE MOMENT!! LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
                                                     125 TOTAL LOST

jiffyj
on 5/6/10 5:14 am - Rochester, NY

RNY on 05/18/09

I really feel u on this. I started getting those comments like 20-30 pounds ago. And the comment i really hate is " i like u better bigger". WTF?!?

Like others have said, do u. I too hit my goal of 180, but wouldn't mind a cushion zone either. Screw everyone else and their opinions, do u.

Highest Weight : 361 (pre-op diet) | Surgery Weight : 311 | Current Weight : 181

margokae
on 5/6/10 11:01 am - oklahoma city, OK

personally i wish I had worked hard to get to a cushion zone--giving me a little room if i gained--but i didn't and i regret every lb. of it that i gained back--now it's a struggle.

just do you--work towards that cusion zone--YOU'LL HAVE NO REGRETS, that for sure!

MKae

echo6w
on 5/6/10 10:42 pm

DS on 03/31/09

Yep, I get it. It was flattering at first but after you hear it from ERRYbody, you're like "dang I got this! Leeeee me alone".

No Retreat! No Surrender!

dstgirl2000
on 5/7/10 4:20 am

RNY on 08/03/09

I feel ya on that MM. It was complimentary and fun to hear all of the ooh's and aww's and first. Then it turns to how much have you lost, to when are you going to stop losing? Now it's annoying to hear the comments of "you're beginning to look boney and sickly". I'm like you MM, I'm at a great weight, but would like to get that down to a few less pounds as a little cushion zone. But you can't please them all. When I was heavy they said take off the weight you'll be healthier, and now that I have there's complaints that I've gone too far! Damn 'em all....it's my journey!

J

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