Congratulations are in order!!!!

virtly
on 4/29/10 2:14 am - va
RNY on 02/11/04 with
I will never be a skinny chick but I can outwalk a lot of skinny *****es. Good cardio here.
purpletb
on 4/29/10 1:37 am
 

It's soooo easy for the weight to creep back up on us - especially when your "honeymooom" period is looong gone!  It's very easy to get carried away with "life" and forget where you came from.....that's why I stick around here as much as possible. 

virtly
on 4/29/10 2:12 am - va
RNY on 02/11/04 with
Whether you know this, but you are an inspiration to me with your honesty and craziness.
Sitting here now eating tuna and cottage cheese, working on the battle of the bulge is a constant struggle.

Raven
Raven B.
on 4/29/10 2:16 am - Bridgeport, CT
Congrats MM!! You are an inspiration and I will keep coming to  BAF and try not to lurk so much...but I need the motivation and inspiration that you VETS bring! It is appreciated

I always knew there was a skinny person hiding inside of me..

    
Ms Shell
on 4/29/10 3:04 am - Hawthorne, CA
Congratulations to you too!!

"WLS is only for people who are ready to move past the "diet" mentality" ~Alison Brown
"WLS is not a Do-Over (repeat same mistakes = get a similar outcome.)  It is a Do-BETTER (make lifestyle changes you can continue forever.)" ~ Michele Vicara aka Eggface

LEE
on 4/29/10 4:02 am
It kills me when people say I know someone who has gained ALL their weight back.   From going to so many meeting in diferent cities I run into hundreds of people and NOT ONE has gained ALL the weight back, but people who only know 1 or 2 people always say those people gained it ALL back.

I just ran into someone the other day who said her neighbor gained it ALL back and I said what I said above to her and she just said I don't know about that but she gained it ALL back.  

I think people want us to gain it ALL back.
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
pokerchips
on 4/29/10 4:04 am
Contrats to all of you that are holding it down. 

I know that I have to stay connected to this site to keep going with this journey it is so easy to get derailed.  The biggest mistake people make is thinking "_____ Pounds Gone For Life!!!".  WLS is no magic bullet you have to put in the work for a lifetime.  I admit I am a scale ***** I weigh myself daily and have found that it's what works for me to make sure a 5 lbs gain doesn't turn into 10 pounds gained.

Support groups work for some and internet connections for others but the bottom line is you must stay connected to some support system that will snatch your a$$ back to reality when you are slippin.

Change is a Process Not an Event

Pastor di
on 4/29/10 4:23 am - DALLAS, TX
This is a great post Mack.  I have run into many people who had lap band or RNY and the first thing that comes out of their mouth is it did not work for me.  I tried and tried, but when I start asking questions I find out, that the people who don't succeed either did not have a good post op plan, was not educated enough, had absolutely no support or they were just undiscipline and had the wrong mindset. 

We do well and I include myself. I remind myself regularly that a 300lb lost was good and although the drs say that was success, the fact that I am still obese says there is more to do.  After 5 years I gained some weight from steroid injections, but I have managed to pull 30 or 35lbs of that back off.  Determination is the only thing that will keep you focused at 5plus years and goal not in sight.  We go through our trials and tribulations, disturbances and distractions only to decide is this over or do I push on....  I decided to push on to see what the end result can be.  It ain't been easy. I have my demons to deal with; but everyday, I am reminded that my pouch still works, it will only accept so much, to me that is a wonderful thing.  We should say congrats for staying on the journey, still having goals,. Fighting the good fight of weight loss and maintainence.
Thanks for sharing.
di


 
 
 

mrs. neenaj
on 4/29/10 4:33 am
Great post and thanks for the reminder. My eating has been awful and I've been re-evaluating  why I'm not eating the right things. We must be vigilent on this journey. I know that I keep myself underweight out of fear of gaining it all back. I appreciate this site even though I'm not sharing like I used to. Thanks for sharing.
Donya E.
on 4/29/10 4:43 am - San Jose, CA
 This really is a great post #1MACK_MAMA,

I had to come out of lurk mode on this one ,lol. Keep doing what you do, i swear, you inspire me daily
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