It happened they called my baby FAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My 9 year old weights 124 and I was like OMG you know you don't realize how much a person eats until after you have surgery and you can no longer eat as much(look at her pic on my profile page) she is solid too ok gotta stop using that as a excuse but I knew the day would come she told me a girl at school called her FAT I wanted to cry I know first had how that feels so I am gonna do something about this I did the heck with am ever since Sunday she's been working her little butt off excercising and not eating a snack in the evening I was like something is up she went up and down my stairs for the last 4 nights like a mad dog telling me she was working out I went in he room she was crunching on the floor she said she wanted to lose some inches in her stomach then I heard her crying in her room Fam it almost killed me I hope and Prayed to God this doesn't effect her in a bad way all her life strugglin with wt issues so you know she is a child at this point it is up to me and my husband to keep her healthy and fit an dang it I am I LOVE my little girl and I need to get on it as well she helped me last night I didn't get a snack either and get this I told her get on the scale we both did and in 2 weeks we would  weigh again to see and GUESS WHAT she lost 4 pounds WOW the girl did something right I am happy not gonna push her I have a feeling things will workout on there own cause my hubby has been trippin about her weight he said something to her one day and wow so now he just says it to me but I hate to say it and I am saddened but I think the little white girl at school who called her FAT did us a big favor and I told her when something is bothering you and you need her add a extra pray on it at night when you get on your knees the LORD will surely hear you don't hesitate to pray about it cause HE WILL WORK IT OUT!!! thanks fam for listening

 Kids can be so dayum cruel!  Good for you and your daughter for taking the steps to a healthier lifestyle!

Firstly, your daughter is as cute as they come!  She is perfectly normal!!!  Often right before puberty, girls can gain weight.  It must be tracked, but it does happen and it's normal.  Secondly, kids today are ignorant and cruel because they hear adults around them saying the same thing and no one is correcting those children.   They just say and do what they want to!   Children learn what we show them, not what we tell them. 

Fat people are still the only part of our society that it is still acceptable to make fun of.  My daughter gained 70 lbs in one year due to a side effect of a medication she took and she was brutally teased.  Eventually, I pulled her from the main school system and home schooled her ( for many reasons)  but her being bullied was one of them.  I'm sorry your baby girl is going through this.  I'm sorry you are too.  It's just mean and cruel. 

Wow the words of encouragment ment alot thank you it's just hard especailly when it's your own I just hope and pray she continues her roll.Bulling OMG things are not the way they use to be when I was in school I didn't know what a bully was NEVER had any problems with that hope all is well with your daughter

 MY HEART GOES OUT TO UR BABY I HATED BEING THE FAT GRL I STILL I'M THE FAT GRL IT CAN BE THE WORST MY DAD ALWAYS FUSSED TO ME ABOUT MY WEIGHT AS A KID AND I NEVER UNDERSTOOD BUT HAD I TOOK HIS WORD THEN I WOULD NOT BE HERE TODAY

Don't be too sure of that and don't be down on yourself about what happened in the past.  

My mom put me on my first diet when I was nine.  All it did was make me feel deprived and miserable. 

You're  taking the steps to do what you need to do to improve your health.