Is it me or is anybody else over this whole thing?

Star Jones
on 2/26/10 4:21 am - National Harbor, MD


Girl, and they keep gettin worse and worse LOL. I'm still chicken about gettin new ones

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

Star Jones
on 2/26/10 4:20 am - National Harbor, MD
And not to be culturally biased...but It's a party full of Nigerians. They all gonna be tryin to fatten me back up. One of my exes friend's had a baby and she begged me to come. It will def be wierd. One of em already saw me on Facebook and asked me if I was ok lol.

Sidenote....when I dated my ex my ear was sooooo in tune to the Nigerian accent. Now, 4 yrs later I can't understand what the hell they are saying LOL The whole convo when the friend called me was Her: blah blah blah, Me:HUH?   All of thier accents are really thick. So on top of answering a billion questions Imma need a translator!!

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

mrs. neenaj
on 2/26/10 3:51 am
Girl I know the feeling. I thought most people were thinking that I had cancer or some other illness until my hubby told me the other day that I looked cracky !!!!!   I don't even know what weed look like and when he said that, I was shocked. The people he worked with know I had surgery and I've told people I had surgery but I don't stop and tell my medical history to everybody in Walmart . People gonna think what they want to anyway so just strut on by.
Star Jones
on 2/26/10 4:24 am - National Harbor, MD
I know people mean well/ genuinely concerned, I'm just ready when it comes to the day when somebody sees an old pic of me 10 years from now and says...OMG I forgot you used to be fat! LOL

~Shani~
I've been pudgy, chubby, thick, and now fat........Imma give thin a go round!!!


SW-262, size 18W, 5'6"
CW-168 1/15/2010
GW-162
94 Lbs down...6 more to go...changed goal to see Onderland for a hot second!
                                           

Frankie Lee
on 2/27/10 8:28 am - WI
hey shanni...and u look good...u o.k.?...u loook a lil thin...:=))...u dont need a translator...u jus need a few shots of couvouissiur(sp)...peace and love my sista...
Seek Heaven
Dukenmykee2
on 2/27/10 9:01 pm
 What;s crazy is that I am only two weeks out and I am already annoyed with the questions? How much have u lost, what do you eat, how do u feel, r u hungry? They thought I would come out of surgery thin, I guess. I get texts everyday.
MarloT
on 3/1/10 12:50 am
VSG on 12/20/07 with
shah-knee, why you dun eat my fuud shah-knee?  :rofl2:

necro be quiet.  you've had time to process.   to somebody who hasn't seen you since before, the weight, the bitties and the hair is a transformation.   politely brush the confetti off your shoulder and keep it movin please.  lol!    how was the party?

                                  be happy, laughter burns calories

 

Candace Sparkles
on 3/3/10 11:11 am
Oh i totally understand what you are saying and I'm right on that boat with you.

First off I am still over 2oo pounds so no way in the friggin world am i sick looking or getting too thin. I still have a loooong way to go. I am happy with my progress, but I'm just a little over half way to goal.

That being said every single time I go to my familys house they look at me as if trying to find something wrong. Within the last week some questions I've gotten from them include:

"hrmm are you tired?
Are you sick?
Are you feeling ok?
Are you sure you should still be eating low carb because you're losing too much weight.
Have you called your dr to see if there is a way to stop the weight loss.
You need to stop losing weight, you're starting to look sickly. 

I mean for real? LOL I can only imagine how they will react when i actually get close to goal. They will probably buy me a plot at the local cemetary expecting the worst lol. Their concern does come from a good place and they don't mean to be annoying, but still it gets old. 

I am starting beauty school March 15th =) I have alwayssss wanted to but felt i lacked the confidence needed for the profession .... until now. So anyway I my last day at my current job is this Friday. So yeah I'm not going to lie I'm looking forward to these people never knowing me as a morbidly obese person. School will last for 10 months and I'm also looking forward to the fact that by the time i look for a job I will be thin and no one will ever know that I was a former fatty lol. I LOVE the people I work with now, but if I'm being honest I hate the way they always talk about how great I look now and are eager to tell ppl that I've lost weight. They are proud of my weight loss and happy for me and they don't mean anything by it .... but yeah it gets old and gets old quickly. I can't wait to start this new chapter of my life =)  

 My DS


                         100% EWL achieved!
   
sw 291/cw 134/gw 145 (Resetting goal to 135!) (resetting yet again to 120!)

                       

    
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