O/T thru a text msg!!!
I just read this and havent read anyone else's response yet. I just wanna say that I am so sorry that you are going through this ~ it will get better. When? IDK, but it will.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
I just went through a similar situation this weekend ~ not as drastic as yours, but a loss none the less. I, too, am sad but I keep reminding myself that he just moved out of the way for the right one to come in.
Keep your head up.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you.
I just went through a similar situation this weekend ~ not as drastic as yours, but a loss none the less. I, too, am sad but I keep reminding myself that he just moved out of the way for the right one to come in.
Keep your head up.
Hi BAF...
Its day #3 and Im doing so much better since then the weekend. I want to thank every one who has responded to my post, ya'll are great family!!! And I am blessed to have people care about me and my situation.
So... He did call, this morning actually. And I did take the call, I just wanted to hear what he had to say and I needed to say my piece as well. What he said really dont matter,but I basically told him that he will eventually see how big of a mistake he made and that he will regret it in the long run (funny thing is he agreed) I told him that this little thing he has with her wont last long, because they had already started off on a bad foot. I told him that it says allot about her character that she would be ok with being the "side chick" because what type of real woman would allow herself to get involved with a man who she already knew had a girl? If she didnt respect the fact that he was in a relationship, what makes him think she will respect when they are in one? And I told him I cant put all the blame on her, he obviously didnt care enough about me to allow himself to get in that situation and to be seduced by another woman. But hey a man is gonna be a man...(dont get me wrong all men aint the same) but if a female is gonna throw her P***Y at him, he gonna take it.
At the end of it all I told him that I forgave him, and all though I would want more then to hate him. Im not going to, because its just not worth it. I told him that I hope he eventually finds happiness and that he never takes 4 granted the people God has placed in his path, because he brings them to us for a reason. I said he was blessed to have me, and I will eventually find the lesson out of all this.
Dont worry BAF... I have deleted his number and placed a phone call to Verizon to has any incoming call or text msg's from his number blocked. =)
Im still hurting, but if accepted it and Im at peace with it. Prayer really does help!!!
Its day #3 and Im doing so much better since then the weekend. I want to thank every one who has responded to my post, ya'll are great family!!! And I am blessed to have people care about me and my situation.
So... He did call, this morning actually. And I did take the call, I just wanted to hear what he had to say and I needed to say my piece as well. What he said really dont matter,but I basically told him that he will eventually see how big of a mistake he made and that he will regret it in the long run (funny thing is he agreed) I told him that this little thing he has with her wont last long, because they had already started off on a bad foot. I told him that it says allot about her character that she would be ok with being the "side chick" because what type of real woman would allow herself to get involved with a man who she already knew had a girl? If she didnt respect the fact that he was in a relationship, what makes him think she will respect when they are in one? And I told him I cant put all the blame on her, he obviously didnt care enough about me to allow himself to get in that situation and to be seduced by another woman. But hey a man is gonna be a man...(dont get me wrong all men aint the same) but if a female is gonna throw her P***Y at him, he gonna take it.
At the end of it all I told him that I forgave him, and all though I would want more then to hate him. Im not going to, because its just not worth it. I told him that I hope he eventually finds happiness and that he never takes 4 granted the people God has placed in his path, because he brings them to us for a reason. I said he was blessed to have me, and I will eventually find the lesson out of all this.
Dont worry BAF... I have deleted his number and placed a phone call to Verizon to has any incoming call or text msg's from his number blocked. =)
Im still hurting, but if accepted it and Im at peace with it. Prayer really does help!!!
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Wow...just wow! Talk about a messed up moment?! He did you a BIG FAVOR by getting out of the way NOW for your man of DESTINY! My Dad's fave quote is "the best way to get over one is to get another". LOL- may not fit the scenario right now, but after time and prayer have worked on your wounds- it will.
LOL I like that quote! but my grandmother told me that loneliness is good 4 the soul, so I think I'll roll with her's for a while. At least until I know I have healed, then I'll be ready 4 follow your dads quote. Only this time I will b more careful, and not get so hung up on some one I met at McDonald's. Yea yall thats how we met, he offered to pay 4 my food. Next time I wont b so damn cheap and pay 4 my own S**T lol... I know I know, my black behind had no business even being there. I could have saved myself some heart ache, and empty calories. =)
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