Update - My Ex-friend of 20 years

(deactivated member)
on 1/29/10 1:59 am - Fair Play, CA
I know that will probably be the jest of it....BUT I know shes not playing. I guess I just need to show her "I" have changed. She probably will not reply at all for a while...which is cool with me.  
MSW will not settle
on 1/29/10 2:29 am

Good response.  Right tone, you're in control. 

I'm with Ms#1MM on the probable reply.  However, if there is any sincerity to this being a bad joke, you did not burn any bridges.   The balls in her court, but you'll really have to read between the lines on any reply. 

schenwhit
on 1/28/10 10:07 pm - long Island, NY
RNY on 03/23/10 with

What da hell.   I know she need to be pimp slapped, send that heffer a reply to that one

Nicole Schen-Whit    
How could you have such a good life like me if there wasn't a God directing?
            
(deactivated member)
on 1/28/10 11:45 pm - Fair Play, CA
If my hand could reach all the way to AZ she might have got one for sure.
MSW will not settle
on 1/28/10 10:27 pm
That is just gross.  I cant tell if this is a he or a she or what damn hole is. 

Yes, that ***** is trying to give you a message but she's a coward and won't just come out with it.  Is she comparing her to you?  Is this a man she thinks you're worthy of?

Whatever is going through her head is just plain foul.  Man or woman, her message is nothing but mean.  I like the long handled spoon analogy but it sounds like she needs to be kicked to the curb.  She is not your friend anymore. 

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(deactivated member)
on 1/28/10 11:58 pm - Fair Play, CA
Yes...it was foul...and she is definitely showing me her true colors. We have know each other for 20 years AND we both have gone in different directions. She has shown me jealousy before but never on this level....just little ignorable comments. You know about me and trust. All kinds of things is going through my mind now. Perhaps I have been her friend all these years and yet she was never really a friend to me.
~I Am Worthy~
on 1/28/10 10:49 pm
Hey!!  I just got that picture as a forward on my phone.  It's going around and around, but it said nothing about a boyfriend.... (maybe she added that part)... what it does say is "WORLD'S LARGEST STARFISH."

The picture is horrible.. but, the person that sent it to me always send me way off sexually DUMB stuff... and he a dude. 

Not sure why she'd add that comment.
(deactivated member)
on 1/29/10 12:03 am - Fair Play, CA
Yeah...shes one of the folks that forwards me all kinds of stuff... As a matter of fact, I told her to cut it out because I don't like it..it junks up my inbox. She has not sent me that many forwards as of late...maybe a prayer of some sort that I have to forward or I will self destruct. Any way...I know that she personalized this message just for me.  She could have just forwarded the message in its original state and I might have got a little chuckle....Nope...not funny whatsoever.
ShayZ
on 1/28/10 11:26 pm - Somewhere, TX
I can't see the picture but remember everyone has their season in your life and just because she has been around for 20 of them doesn't mean it isn't her time to go.  Thank the Lord that He opened your heart enough to help her out and pray that He will deliver her, both from whatever turmoil she is experiencing and FROM your life.

You have better things to do then to get turned out by a mean spirited and jealousy filled person. There is nothing you can do about or with jealousy so leave it alone. Wi**** well but leave it where you found it.
(deactivated member)
on 1/29/10 12:05 am - Fair Play, CA
Hey Shay,

Yes...I actually am starting to feel a little lighter at the prospects of letting her go. I really have been sucked up in a lot of her issues for far too long. I was always the one that she leaned on AND yet I get nothing when I need someone to lean on. NOT. Time to move on for sure. Thanks.



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