Facebook HATERS! How would you react?

FreeSpirited1
on 1/21/10 6:50 am
I wouldnt give her the satisfaction of any type of response. Great job on your weight loss. Keep up the great work. Im sorry that you have  'friend' who acts this way
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Carol *
on 1/21/10 8:52 pm
  thanks MSW!
Ziggyb62
on 1/21/10 11:52 am - Baltimore, MD
My fear realized... that someone would post something foolish on my FB wall. WTH?

I'm sorry, but some things can't be ignored. This is a violation of your personal business, even if she doesn't know for sure that you had surgery. You can ignore her, and wait for the next post on your wall, or you can delete her as your FB friend. There are boundaries, and sometimes people need to be reminded of them... it all starts with the delete button. 
Sweetie for Life
on 1/21/10 12:20 pm
First of all CONGRATULATIONS on your success!!! You've worked hard to be where you are!! How you got there is your business and your business only to share!!! PRAY PRAY PRAY!!!! I haven't had my surgery yet, but have someone in my life that I feel has the same type of character- fakin and shakin.... Then the real truth comes out... Don't give her the time or energy. Realize as someone said she was your friend during a season in your life, but the season has now changed. Make new friends who will be there to support you and build you up rather than tear you down! Definitely make use of the FB ctrls and delete her. Don't need negativity rainin on your parade!! Keep it up Girl!
          
Carol *
on 1/21/10 11:10 pm
Thanks!  Tjsmommy!  You are so right.  Good Luck with your WL journey!
Carol *
on 1/21/10 8:55 pm
Thanks Zibby.  I didn't delete her but I am going to delete her now!  I'm hoping that she calls me so I can tell her how I feel...
Her Royal Flyness
on 1/22/10 3:14 am
Personally I believe in something called lying by ommision.  No judgement, but basically that is what you have done and ole girl is not an idiot, she's had 2 surguries, she knows what's up.  I wouldn't care, but I think she's probably thinking..."she know her ass got cut, she need to quit playin"  Again, no judgement, but that's probably where she's coming from. 

You deleted the post, but did u delete HER?  I think u should, that way she has no way to publicly say anything else.  I'm with your husband, the moment has passed, but in the event that there is ever any further interaction you should handle it RIGHT THEN.

It is never too late to be what you might have been

~George Eliot
Carol *
on 1/22/10 5:29 am
ebonyfigueroa
on 2/13/10 8:25 am
USE HER TO UR BEST U DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE HER SO LAUGH IN HER FACE BECAUSE WLS WORKED FOR YOU AND NOT FOR HER SORRY BUT LOOK AT HER AS WHAT YOU DONT WANT TO BE 
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