Never doubt online dating - I found my prince there and I cried when I got my white diamond ring

congrats, i think it will work but not when you're fat.  Society looks for smaller women, most men want that, if i am able to find someone true who loves me now and will love the new me as well, i would be so lucky

Thanks! Don't be so negative on yourself! Remember men tend to like women who are confident and have a positive outlook on life and upbeat regardless of size. You are right a GOOD man will love you unconditionally regardless of size, HOWEVER, it IS much easier to catch a guy and get his attention when you look your best and not being extremely obese really helps, but believe it or not most most do not like very skinny women, they don't like very fat either, so I think if you fall in between you should good, good luck to you.