SEX ADDICT!!!

MIDDLE MAN
on 12/23/09 9:16 pm - GA
IS THERE SUCH A THING? I DUNNO. WHAT IS CONSIDERED A SEX ADDICT

                                                     ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                      SEIZE THE MOMENT!!  LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
                                                     125 TOTAL LOST

Candace ..
on 12/23/09 9:44 pm - pgh, PA

hmm... are you a scorpio cause if your are NO...lol

 

 

                                                                 130LBS GONE!!!
                                     
MIDDLE MAN
on 12/23/09 10:01 pm - GA

Im a GEMINI!!!

                                                     ATL STAND UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                      SEIZE THE MOMENT!!  LIGHTS , CAMERA , ACTION
                                                     125 TOTAL LOST

lovely2lqqat
on 12/25/09 6:38 am - harrisburg, PA
Ok, Middleman you are my twin, I want to sit back and watch and see what this is all about...

      
Dreadz9093
on 12/23/09 10:02 pm - Irvington, NJ
Hey I'm a Scorpio
 
I love sex, love to partake in, watch, read and talk about it but I don't consider myself an addict.

Or would I

Now I 'm confused but I tell you what this is most definitely my most favorite subject.
            
dbajunky
on 12/23/09 10:35 pm - Kernersville, NC

oh Geminis got it BAD.  Trust!
(deactivated member)
on 12/23/09 10:57 pm - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
Hey Middle Man!

I am no sex addict but there is a debate as to whether it exists.  I personally think that a person can be addicted to anything. They are mental disorders.  Whenever the obsessive/compulsive behavior centers around a certain activity or thing AND interferes profusely with ones level of functioning, its a problem.  Furthermore, when the person has extreme difficulty ceasing the hazardous behaviors despite the possibility of serious consequences..I would say its bordering on addiction. When it goes on for a prolonged period of time....in my eyes...its an addiction.

Now I am not talking about a person just wanting sex all the time. Thats simply a high sex drive. I am talking about when a person will get to the point of having their mind preoccupied with sex so much that they can't work or sleep adequately.  Start to watch ***** and utlize prostitutes. Using sex as a way to compensate for something that the person is lacking rather than just for the sake of gratification in itself. Don't have any regard for who the behavior might hurt.  Taking high risks to have sex.

Here is some info I also found on the net:


What is Sexual Addiction – Sexual Compulsion?
Written by HealthyPlace.com Staff Writer     
Dec 27, 2008 A +  A -  RESET  

Comprehensive information on sexual addiction-causes, symptoms and treatment of sexual addiction.

There is no category for “sexual addiction" in the current Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-IV) and there’s debate in the medical community as to whether addiction to sex even exists; rather some believe it might just be a heightened desire for sex.

The DSM IV does, however, describe certain sexual disorders which are characterized by, or include among their features, excessive and/or unusual sexual urges or behaviors. Under the listing “Sexual Disorders Not Otherwise Specificed, the DSM IV describes sex addiction as “distress about a pattern of repeated sexual relationships involving a succession of lovers who are experienced by the individual only as things to be used." The DSM IV list the symptoms of sex addiction as “compulsive searching for multiple partners, compulsive fixation on an unattainable partner, compulsive masturbation, compulsive love relationships and compulsive sexuality in a relationship."

The Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health further defines sexual addiction as a persistent and escalating pattern or patterns of sexual behaviors acted out despite increasingly negative consequences to self or others.

Behaviors Associated with Sexual Addiction

Some out-of-control repetitive behaviors, which may reflect sexual addiction include:

  • Masturbation
  • Simultaneous or repeated sequential affairs
  • *****graphy
  • Cyber sex, ********
  • Multiple anonymous partners
  • Unsafe sexual activity
  • Partner sexualization, objectification
  • Strip clubs and adult bookstores
  • Sexual aversion
  • Prostitution

Sex Addiction can involve a wide variety of practices. Sometimes an addict has trouble with just one unwanted behavior, sometimes with many. A large number of sex addicts say their unhealthy use of sex has been a progressive process. It may have started with an addiction to masturbation, *****graphy (either printed or electronic), or a relationship, but over the years progressed to increasingly dangerous behaviors.

Consequences of Sexual Addiction

The essence of all addiction is the addicts' experience of powerlessness over a compulsive behavior, resulting in their lives becoming unmanageable. The sex addict is out of control and experiences tremendous shame, pain and self-loathing. The sex addict may wish to stop --- yet repeatedly fails to do so. The unmanageability of sex addicts' lives can be seen in the consequences they suffer:

  • losing relationships
  • difficulties with work
  • arrests, financial troubles
  • a loss of interest in things not sexual
  • low self-esteem and despair

Sexual preoccupation takes up tremendous amounts of energy. As this increases for the sex addict, a pattern of behavior (or rituals) follows, which usually leads to acting out (for some it is flirting, searching the net for *****graphy, or driving to the park.) When the acting out happens, there is a denial of feelings usually followed by despair and shame or a feeling of hopelessness and confusion.

Sources:

  • Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV)
  • Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health
  • Richard Irons, M. D. and Jennifer P. Schneider, M.D., Ph.D., "Differential Diagnosis of Addictive Sexual Disorders Using the DSM-IV," Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity 1996, Volume 3, pp 7-21, 1996.

   
MSW will not settle
on 12/24/09 7:14 am
I was thinking I could use one of those but after Ms MD's explanation perhaps not. 
schenwhit
on 12/24/09 2:29 pm - long Island, NY
RNY on 03/23/10 with
To me a sex addict is a person who cannot get enough of sex, they must have it any time anywhere the urge hits, kinda like a junkie.  It don't matter where they are or what they are doing.  They could be at work and if they could get some one anyone to meet them in the bathroom so be it.

I haven't got that bad yet..LMAO
dstgirl2000
on 12/24/09 8:08 pm
Hey fellow Gemini!..........Don't know the answer to your question, but I'm sure like many (well for me anyway), there's no such thing as too much...:-)

I did also want to congratulate you on your "100" wl card.  That's incredible!  Great job!

J
                        
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