Pggy Backing On - Outrageous:Crazy:Bananas!...but then again
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on 12/22/09 11:47 pm
on 12/22/09 11:47 pm
If ya'll could care less about rejection...
At that moment in time, I was speaking in terms of (and directly to) breaking up with a person or showing them that you don't want to be with them.
then why are yall so afraid to approach a woman in a crown/group?
Not exactly sure why that is but here are two good educated guesses;
1. A man can have the "brass balls" of a lion-hearted warrior but still be a little boy inside. Therefore, he'll be about as courageous as he has to be given his chances of conquering something tangible or physical, but when it comes to approaching a woman, for some men, it just may be too abstract for them to take advantage of all of the cues and signals a woman may throwing his way to get a proper vibe or flow going. This does in fact scare some guys.
2. Men, no matter how big or how small, are all about the logistics of things. It's all about 'cause and affect' for us. The thought of having to walk up to who we think is pretty, speak to her, compliment her, provide witty conversation, interest her in chatting with us for a few minutes or maybe longer, AND be unique enough doing all of this so that she'll forget about all of the other losers and remember him to boot?! Maaaaan... That's a lot of pressure for some dudes to try and handle so they'll just opt out and go see some strippers; buy a hooker; or rent some p*rn instead.
The reason I've always heard was REJECTION...ya'll need to pick a lane!
We do pick a lane. We choose the path of least resistance - but that's in the approach or beginning stages of a relationship... Wait a second...
I'm getting a call from the Broham Royal Unified Heritage (aka BRUH). They don't want me to divulge anymore secrets out of fear that y'all will gain the upper-hand. Gotta run...
At that moment in time, I was speaking in terms of (and directly to) breaking up with a person or showing them that you don't want to be with them.
then why are yall so afraid to approach a woman in a crown/group?
Not exactly sure why that is but here are two good educated guesses;
1. A man can have the "brass balls" of a lion-hearted warrior but still be a little boy inside. Therefore, he'll be about as courageous as he has to be given his chances of conquering something tangible or physical, but when it comes to approaching a woman, for some men, it just may be too abstract for them to take advantage of all of the cues and signals a woman may throwing his way to get a proper vibe or flow going. This does in fact scare some guys.
2. Men, no matter how big or how small, are all about the logistics of things. It's all about 'cause and affect' for us. The thought of having to walk up to who we think is pretty, speak to her, compliment her, provide witty conversation, interest her in chatting with us for a few minutes or maybe longer, AND be unique enough doing all of this so that she'll forget about all of the other losers and remember him to boot?! Maaaaan... That's a lot of pressure for some dudes to try and handle so they'll just opt out and go see some strippers; buy a hooker; or rent some p*rn instead.
The reason I've always heard was REJECTION...ya'll need to pick a lane!
We do pick a lane. We choose the path of least resistance - but that's in the approach or beginning stages of a relationship... Wait a second...
I'm getting a call from the Broham Royal Unified Heritage (aka BRUH). They don't want me to divulge anymore secrets out of fear that y'all will gain the upper-hand. Gotta run... 
You can say goodbye without being mean. You don't have to say anything hurtful about his teeth. He knows his mouth is jacked up. Send him a message and tell him that although he seems like a nice person, the physical chemistry just isn't there. Then wish him good luck in meeting the woman of his dreams and leave him alone.
WTF????
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price....... 
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ignoring doesn' t work. men who want you (especially a dude with um *limited* options) don't take no for an answer. if you're gonna stay on the web, be direct, tactful but indisputable. i love what suzy said cuz it's soft n' pink and spares his feelings but it leaves him room for debate "well, chemistry builds over time......" shut 'er down gurl "i'm not physically attracted to you" throw in a good luck in your search if you think it'll help him stop texting.
lmao@ imagining what comes after trina's wtf - also a way to go.
my point is, for internet dating, you'll need to grow a shell, start now. good luck in your search. lol!
lmao@ imagining what comes after trina's wtf - also a way to go.
my point is, for internet dating, you'll need to grow a shell, start now. good luck in your search. lol!
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