When motivation withers... (xpost)

MSW will not settle
on 12/17/09 3:29 am
...how do you revive it? 

What motivates you? 

When that motivator is just not there what do you fall back on?

How do you keep from becoming discouraged?

When you're down how do you pick yourself back up again?

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on 12/17/09 4:47 am - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
..how do you revive it? 

Buy myself something one size smaller
Look at before and after pics on OH....reminds me that I am capable
Set a goal


What motivates you? 

Reading the positive comments of those that are losing on OH

Increase endorphins help motivate me...anything I can do to get them pumping ...is a big help. Exercise, travel, anything to focus my mind on something besides eating.

Doing anything else that helps me feel as if I am moving forward or in a positive direction  



When that motivator is just not there what do you fall back on?

I try my best to maintain  my weight....actually I consider this being successful. To not regain or stay within a 5 pound fluctuation is still success to me. This has its drawbacks because I will become complacent even though I am not at goal.... but it beats regaining back ALL the weight.


How do you keep from becoming discouraged?

Read positive articles whenever possible. Rehearse positive affirmations (in the mirror if necessary)

Pray about it....for relief.


When you're down how do you pick yourself back up again?


Its hard....but the best thing that I can do is get in a routine....if I get in a routine for a week without messing up...I am usually good to go for at least a few month before I start to cycle (relapse).
MSW will not settle
on 12/17/09 5:08 am
Thanks for your perspective Ms MD.  As usualy your reply demonstrates how self aware you are.  I'll need to cogitate on some of your points. 
LEE
on 12/17/09 5:18 am

I never wait to be motivated,  I just do it, and make promises to myself.  If I say I will, I will.

Motivation kicks in once I start.

Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
MSW will not settle
on 12/17/09 5:59 am
Lee girl, I know you understand what its like to do what you need to do without the positive results.   Success has always been my motivator to even greater success.  When that's not happening it is hard not to ask whats the point. 
LEE
on 12/17/09 10:55 am
Lord do I understand.   I have not lost a pound in over 2 years and I workout like a freaking crazy person, did NutriSystem for 2 months and didn't lose a dam pound.   My friend that did it with me lost 29 pounds.  (I was happy for her but she told me I cried) 

My doctors run tests and can't find the problem.  It really sucks so bad some days I just cry.  I know if I stop I will just be fat as hell again because while I can't lose weight I sure in hell can gain and it really sucks.   (man you just got me choked up)  lol. 

I just hate it, but I keep going because I have to.  I don't have an option to stop
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
Hugga76
on 12/17/09 10:32 am
Lee, I'm just going to call you Nike you are awesome gurl I just had to tell you.  I may not respond but I always read your workout posts, you ran through your pain and everything.  You rock!!!!

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LEE
on 12/17/09 10:56 am
Thanks Hugga

I was drugged a bit so it wasn't so bad,  but yes I usually do workout even when i'm in pain. 

I'm just crazy like that.
Salty Pickle a.k.a.  Lee
wonkad
on 12/17/09 11:37 pm - IL
 ((((LEE)))) Now that's what I'm talking about!

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Motown's Finest
on 12/17/09 5:29 am - MI
My Mirro, my clothes, the scale my brain...This is what makes me keep at it until I get it like I want it.. I never give up, I may slow down but I won't ever give up.. I want to be healthy, that's the bottom line, to be healthy and to keep on pushing, at my age it's extremely hard, but I know I have to do this.. If you don't use it you will lose it...
"Criticism like rain should be gentle enough to nourish man"      
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