What if...?

Not for nothing, but even if they were to give you a pill/shot to vaccinate you from all STDs, I still wouldn't get ride of the helmets for that soldier...reason being I don't need to have a whole bunch of kids all over the place. 

There is a reason I have only ONE kids.  lol

That's true.  The babies-all-over-town/deadbeat dad thing has been done to death.  Time to chart a new course for change in the Blacque Community I agree.

Won't trust it!

"Yep.  Just like roaches.  Ya kill one and here comes 3 more."

  Thanks for playing along.

Do you think it would strengthen a relationship knowing that everybody could be condom & worry free though?

What about if you had a close girlfriend that was on the fence about it?  What would your advice be for her?

Do you think it would strengthen a relationship knowing that everybody could be condom & worry free though?

adding pretend salt to pretend scenario:  straight up selfish _ _ _ man's point of view right there - I'M straight so we good.  as long as pretend cure doesn't prevent real pregnancy, BOTH of us aren't worry free 

What about if you had a close girlfriend that was on the fence about it?  What would your advice be for her?

tell her that i try to stay out of grown folks business but since you asked do what makes you feel comfortable and what works in your relationship

I'm on the fence about whether it would strenghten or damage relationships.  STD's are how some playa's been caught.  They got something in the street and brought it back home to the wife.  Now if he never gets a STD the only way left to get caught for the super playa's is with a baby. 

I'm thinking it's only going to make people more suspicious if your significant other says they want the shot.  Why do you need it if you are in a monogamous relationship?  If you are single and dating have at it...

 @ STD's are how some playa's been caught.  They got something in the street and brought it back home to the wife. 

True but in the "here and now" do you really think women need to be playing Russian Roulette with their bodies like that though - "If he gets a bug then I'll know he's been hoein around but if he doesn't then it's all good..."  Doesn't seem right to me but okay.

Now if he never gets a STD the only way left to get caught for the super playa's is with a baby. 

Please...   Y'all women are some natural-born detectives.  If she even suspects for a minute that he's dirty, she'll rig a way to catch his azz.  Ask Steve Harvey, Michael Jordan, Shaq, Eric Benet, and of course Tiger Woods.

Nah...I don't do vaccines...I just make sure I choose my significant other wisely; and I pre-screen very good and hafta see those health papers ... and I don't sleep around ...

I'd want it.  I'd want him to get it too if I had a steady fella. 

Hopefully, years down the road, the vacine does not turn out to be as bad as the std's its supposed to prevent. 

The condoms stay at least untill I hit menapause (please God let that be real soon).  Besides, if he cheats I want to be protected.  I take no chances.