Friends DO CHANGE!!

"she was never a true friend to begin with. "


I'm a lot older than most of you ladies/gents here, and I've had the same best friend for over 50 years. My newest best friend where I live I've known for over 30. My BFF #1 is all for me having the surgery, (she's bigger than me), and the other #2 (she's ginormous, no joke just sayin) is putting it in a category of me dying on the table!  Now I'm going to do what's best for me healthwise regardless of what ANYONE says or thiinks. The naysayers have their own reasons for their negativity, and they have the right to their feelings, but they don't have the right to put them (feelings) on our hearts and shoulders. If either one of my BFF's decide that I'm no longer needed in their circle of love, b/c I've lost wieght and they haven't then so be it. Negativity doesn't have a place in this journey of mine.

She is smaller than I and have always been that way. I totally agree with everyone...you guys actually bring me to tears because every last word is correct. I am not the type of person to argue or any he say she say. I am done with the relationship. I will always be kind to her but distant. Thank you all for the love and support at least I am not alone!!