Out of lurk mode and have a question

Yesterday I get this email from a co-worker of mine and she says what's up with you being G's (abbreviating names to protect the guilty) cheerleader lately? Now G is another co-workers husband. Now both of these women I consider friends of sorts. So I immediately call her and I was like what does that mean. She said it just seems like you have been taking his side lately in conversations. Just wanted to know if you wanted him or something. Are you trying to take M's man or something and then she laughs. Which I immediately say absolutely not. I also tell her how offended I am that she would even suggest such a thing. She says she was just kidding and I am overreacting. But I told her that there wasn't anything funny about it and she shouldn't even put such things out there. Fast forward to today. We have breakfast every morning but this morning they don't call me for breakfast. So what say you BAF? Should I have been offended and what do you make of this whole scenario.

And not to sound racist but these women are white. And the women in question's husband is 47.  I am 32. What in the world would I want with a 47 year old married white man with 4 kids??? If I am going to take someones husband I wouldn't go that route.

  Women can be so petty sometimes...............

you'll have to just chalk that up - never know what ole girl pumping into the lady's head about what SHE thinks YOU are out to do with her hubby......

That's the thing I know that she been in ole girls ear probably saying that I wanted her husband. That is just insane. The thought makes me want to throw up. Its disgusting.

 Now I do have an eye on someones husband but it aint hers. LOL. But I am not even going there even in that situation. No matter how tempted I am.

I would let it go and not even worry about it. We all have someone like that in our workplace.

That is why I need to work from home.

OMG...They are insecure and from my experiences with "friends" this year some women like to make up any excuse to get rid of you.

Yes I have been finding that to be true. Its amazing how people just all of sudden disappear and don't return your phone calls or pick silly fights with you out of the blue. The thing is these two co workers have been making comments lately about how I think I am all of that and what not. And I just laughed it off. This is so far from the truth. Yes I do have a new found confidence but I don't think I am better than anyone else.

I hate "cracking but facking" you know when someone acts like they are cracking a joke but really mean it. That just burns me up! If you have something to say - just say it. Women can be a trip....but to answer your question............they purposely did not ask you to breakfast.

   My guess... 

The woman who sent you the e-mail wants G.    She seems to care an awful lot about what you have to say about him.  If you think about it, casting suspicion on you would serve two purposes for her.  It would throw G's wife off track and also eliminate any potential competion from you.  After she convinces G's wife that she's her best friend, it'll be easier for her to make a move on G.

Sending you an e-mail like that was definitely unprofessional.  I'm glad you didn't respond to it and called her instead.   I would definitely back away from that situation. 

 

I'm with Sue on this one. First thing that came to my mind was that ho aint worried about wifey, she's sizing up HER competition.  SMDH.  Hoes.