When you love someone....

Dwayne, I disagree with you to some degree.  I believe everyone has a love language.  When you love someone you love them the way THEY need to be loved, not the way YOU want to love them.  So if they need to hear the words and you truly love them, then the words should flow.  If they need to see actions, then by all means, pour on the actions.  Anyone can pretend by actions to love you as well.  "well, I took out the trash.  See I love you.".  Trust me, love is both words and deeds. 

Some times its hard to love some one the way they want u 2, some people just want to take so much from you. And even after you give them your all, its not enough, they want more. If I was to love a few of the people I had in my life the way they wanted me to, I would b exhausted!

Agreed.  I think that kind of relationship is unbalanced and no matter what you do, it will always be.  That is why I stand on that being emotionally healthy and mature and in the place you need to be on your own BEFORE getting into a relationship is so important.  I firmly believe that two broken people together still don't make a whole person. 

Hey, did I ever tell you that I loved you the last time we talked, I do, you are a true sweetheart and among only a handful that I would TRULY consider a true friend in real life.

That being said, YES, when I love someone I DO show it, action always speak louder than words, but words only add cream to the pudding, I am also protective and nurturing to my love-ones......and will backup my TRUE friends to the end...love you sweetie...by the way  look out for my call this week!

I love you too!!!!! Thank you so much baby girl.  You are soo sweet!!!!! You are truly my friend as well.  You have blessed my life and I appreciate you so much!!!

You and Erik are going to be so happy.  I can't wait to see the wedding pics.  Call me anytime sweetheart. 

So....as the day comes to a close....I will answer my own my post. 

Today, I thanked God and told Him how much I love Him for all that He is and for all that Jesus did....just for me.

I checked on my baby girl through out the night because she has the flu and she may have needed me.  I touched her forehead, wrapped her a little more tightly in her blanket.  I took her to see her doctor and as we watched all the new babies in her pediatricians office, I couldn't help but remind her that "when you were that size, I use to kiss your little feet."  To which she replied snidely, "Mother....I'm almost 18. Let it go!!" Then I begged her to grow younger so I could cradle her just one more time.  ....yea, I got the side ways dirty look on that one. 

Before I put head to pillow, I will call my mother and remind her that she is the best mother ever and I love her more than words can express.  I have told my Pastors how much I love them, trust them and need them.  I have reached out to a few friends today, just to let them know once more that I love and appreciate them.  Today, I even told someone who isn't hearing me and doesn't feel the same.  Anyway, they should know by now....

At last, BAF/OH family.... I love you. Have a blessed nite.