OT: Freaks and Relationships........ yea - you know you wanna read this.....

I wouldn't be able to be with her. I just wouldn't be comfortable, to me if I cant satisfy you completely, then there is an issue. I know it may be a difference but still when it comes down to it I WANT to satisfy my woman completely.

I don't know about any other guys, but for me, making love to my woman is craft. I don't just stick to the traditional bedroom actions. I take my time, I study her body, observe if I touch her in a certain spot if it makes her feel good, explore her body not only with my hands but with my t___! To me its a problem with the man, if the woman needs to step outside the bounds of the sexual relationship in order to be satisfied.

I want to blow her mind on such a sensual and sexual level that her body stays satisfied even days after it happens.

  note on Micah.... no Bi-women......

Great Question. I say if your other half feels comfortable enough that they can ask try it. I will try just about anything my husband ask. (Key word ASK) If he does not ask we doing what I want.

To answer the other question. No, shutting down your inner freak. Know who you with before you get it.

Now - I would have to say that you can't REALLY know EVERYTHING about a mofo before you hit it..... I mean - let's say.... hypothetically..... you into some seriously almost perverted ish - something that not errybody gon understand, and certainly may not want to do and might think you crazy as heyl for liking that ish..... you can't just BOOM!  break that out - you gotta work that in over time......

"if your dude wanted to do some off the wall ish - go to a swinger party or put your feet on the headboard and tickle your azz with a feather before he hit it and you thought that was too much and he stepped out - would you be mad?  "

Hell yeah I would be mad, because I would be rubbing cramps out of my ass and hips for days.

you stoopid COLE!!!!!

 @ be rubbing cramps out of my ass and hips for days.

I agree with you when you're with a guy you dont let them see all of it up front.  I mean you have to work your way into the freakiness.  Also there are different aspects of how freaky a person is and are willing to go.  But if you let a person know everything up front then you dont have anything to blow they mind with later on.  I feel that if you are comfortable with your mate and y'all have that commnication where he can step to you and let you know how he's feeling and what he want then hey....  To each is own I know but to me it wouldnt bother me we just need to have that open communication.