OT: Freaks and Relationships........ yea - you know you wanna read this.....

LOL!!!!  Dang yall nassy for a Monday morning!!!!!!

Alright - here's the question - can you REALLY 'stifle' a freak in a relationship?  If one partner is clearly wild and willing to try just about anything but the partner is a prude - can you 'reform' or 'suppress' the freak? 

If the freak steps out to fulfill their freakiness, whose wrong - the partner for trying to stifle them or the freak for stepping out? 

dudes - if your lady was interested in messing around with a chick - would you say no?  or if you said yes, would you put some condition on it like you gotta be there?  If the chick went and hooked up with a chick JUST for the nookie but stayed with you, would you be mad?

ladies - if your dude wanted to do some off the wall ish - go to a swinger party or put your feet on the headboard and tickle your azz with a feather before he hit it and you thought that was too much and he stepped out - would you be mad? 

And lastly - WHY is it that men will STAY with bland bedroom chicks for life but will find, finance and creep with a freak on the side for life??  If that's what you really dig, why can't you marry that freak??  oh - this goes for ladies too.......

I'm jus sayin.......  alright - SPEAK ON IT!!!! 

the Mack is back ...it's been slow 'round these parts.  i was wondering if da man had you tied down or something...lol  as far as feet to the headboard and a feather...although VERY funny, i have no comment.

Naw, not tied down by THE man...... maybe A man.......




  LOL!!!!!!!!

Um- but can you answer the damn question posed in the post?????  all that clappin and ish is nice and all..... I'm tryna get a convo started here!!!!  LOL

  
Alright - here's the question - can you REALLY 'stifle' a freak in a relationship?  If one partner is clearly wild and willing to try just about anything but the partner is a prude - can you 'reform' or 'suppress' the freak? 

No.  Why would ya want to? 

If the freak steps out to fulfill their freakiness, whose wrong - the partner for trying to stifle them or the freak for stepping out? 

The freak is freaking wrong for freaking stepping out with their freaky azz.  Freak dat. 

dudes - if your lady was interested in messing around with a chick - would you say no? No.  Not only would I allow it but I would also encourage and finance if necessary.  or if you said yes, would you put some condition on it like you gotta be there?  Of course I gotta be there.  I'm not like Uncle Sam here, if I send ya to college I wanna get smart too.  If the chick went and hooked up with a chick JUST for the nookie but stayed with you, would you be mad?  Yes.  The freak is freaking wrong for freaking stepping out with their freaky azz.  I thought we freakin covered that above.  Oh yeah...  Freak dat.

ladies - if your dude wanted to do some off the wall ish - go to a swinger party or put your feet on the headboard and tickle your azz with a feather before he hit it and you thought that was too much and he stepped out - would you be mad? 

"tickle your azz with a feather before he hit it..."  What?!  And she wouldn't let him shove his tongue up there a few times first?  This is preposterous!  ...but it started off good though.    

And lastly - WHY is it that men will STAY with bland bedroom chicks for life but will find, finance and creep with a freak on the side for life??  If that's what you really dig, why can't you marry that freak??  oh - this goes for ladies too.......

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Aiight - lemme ask you this - WHY you GOTTA be there????  Maybe she wanna do her thang and have her private 'moment' - she ain't looking to leave you at ALL - but just wanna have a ummm - 'milkshake' and sit in a private booth in the back.  She gon come right back up front and get the burger with you tho......

what's wrong wit that?

Uh... Nuttin.

Men are simply more visual than women are in respect to xes.  We wanna watch the "milkshake taste-test" going on in the back.  

what's wrong wit that?   

Maybe she ain't an exhibitionist - she don't want you watching her...... what then?

 @ "she don't want ME watching her......"
 



                                                                         




                                           "Hello.  Freaks 'R Us? Uh... I'd like to complain about your BustyBeulah2009 model.  Yeah I think she needs an upgrade or sumpen-sumpen.  No she'll get freaky, but she doesn't want me watching her getting her freak on with another woman.  I know right!  That's what I said.  Okay I'll ship her lame azz right back ASAP!...."   

dayum! i can't believe i've been suckered into this post...smh
i believe everyone is entitled to their own level on the freak-o-meter.  if my level is lower than yours, you may need to find you someone who is on the same level, and i'll do the same...hypothetical situation of course...lol

i don't believe in suppressing the freak.  if the freak is with a prude, and still steps out to get his/her freak on, i blame the freak!  let the prude be and go on about your business to find your ideal mate.

communication is the key here. 

 

 

I come out of lurk mode to answer THIS question. Seriously though. How do freaks and prudes even get past the first zexual encounter? Don't you pretty much know that you aren't compatible from the jump? If the freak steps out on the prude, I blame both parties. I blame the freak for obvious reasons, but I also blame the prude for not being a little adventurous and trying something new.

One of my girlfriends recently killed a really good (or what I thought was good from the outside looking in) relationship because of bedroom incompatibility. Dude wanted her to talk dirty, she couldn't bring herself to do. I tried to give her advice, but she only looked at me strangely, and now thinks I'm a big old freak. Now she got no mans.... (spelled wrong on purpose).