OMG!!!! Why am "I" jealous???

First, let me start by saying hello to everyone
It has been a minute since I have posted anything on BAF...but I'm still lurking.

I think I have done well with my weight loss...naw, scratch that....I have done OUTSTANDING with my weight loss in the past 3 almost 4 years that I've been on this journey.
 
Since becoming pregnant, I have gained weight (duh??) but it's right on target at 3-4 lbs a month as the doctor requires...so all together I have gained maybe 25lbs and I'm 7 1/2 months pregnant now. I should be happy....right? WRONG!!!
 
Here's my issue: Hubby has been losing weight since I got pregnant by excercising everyday and eating well...WTH!!!...aren't the men suppose to gain weight with us, LOL??? At first I didn't expect him to keep up with it cause he's the type that starts a diet but don't fini****but ummmm, not this time! Baby boy has lost almost 30lbs,  going to the gym everyday, now he's looking all extra sexy.....while I got this watermelon for a belly, LOL ! I'm happy for him but I'm also jealous at the same time because I can't do anything about my weight until after the baby's born and I'm kinda scared I'm gonna be struggling getting this weight off .

I just constantly worry about the "what if's" which causes me not to get too excited about his success, I know that's wrong but I'm being honest....What if I can't get back to a size 8/9? What if I can't get my flat stomach back? What if he's not attracted to me anymore because of the "extra's?  Although he has assured me none of that is important to him and that we'll excercise together to get me back in shape....it still bothers me. Yep, some of it is hormones cause I break down and cry when he celebrates each pound lost...but most of it is fear of returning back from where I came from prior to WLS. What's a girl to do?

not only are you physically pregnant, you are CERTIFIABLY pregnant!  meaning?  you are just hormonal.  only a 25lb gain??  that's AWESOME.  hell i gained well over 60 with both of mine.  i've seen your pics and you are ALL BABY!  once the little bundle of joy makes his appearance, he'll take all that "baby weight" with him.  no worries mommy.  you'll be back in your 8/9's in no time!

You know....everything is about these darn horomones, I HATE them! LOL
I'm trying to stay positive about it being all baby weight, I'm not totally convinced....then again, like you said, those dag-gone hormones might be the culprit once again!

Thanks Shontay!

Awwwww  (((((((TRINA))))))) 

It's the hormones.

Everything will be all right.  You'll be back in tip top shape before you know it.  Maybe you can buy one of those baby strollers that will let you run or power walk with your little one.

You take care of yourself, OK?

Will do Sue! ~muah~

Yep, all harmones sweetie!!    When I was pregnant (don't cha hate when women start sentences out like that)...oh well...when I was pregnant....I could not stand the way my husband smelled.  He could be clean, buffed and polished and I STILL could not stand they way he smelled.   Harmones girl, all harmones!  Smooch.

B

Girl that's way pregnancy does to you -- have you thinking all kinds of stuff

Hubby is going to love you regardless and the good thing is, he already has a plan:

"we'll exercise together to get me back in shape"  There's nothing like a good supportive mate.  I'm 100% convinced that you will be back in your 8/9 sizes.

Karen

Join the club missy!  Here I am less than 2 weeks out from delivery and I'm just a mess!  It truly is hormones....I cry and then laugh about it later.

you will  be fine lovely one.