Is it the Beauty or the Booty? Or the Heart?

 @ PLENTY women married to FUggLY men and they still cheat on them, don't help with bills, or don't respect them...

That ain't right.  They shouldn't do that. 

Dang really??? I am going to make some man really happy then

you stoopid cole

OK, I'll bite on this one...

Let's see, I guess since I have gotten older, my priorities have changed as well and since I too have been married before and in long term relationships (with a wide range of variety), this is whats important to me now..

1. Honesty
2. HUMOR -- if you can make me laugh and vice versa, we are golden.
3. Intelligent - I mean he does NOT have to be a Harvard graduate by no means, just be able to hold a serious conversation when necessary  BUT not be too serious ALL the time.
4.. Compassion and affectionate
5.  Good looking - He does NOT have to be fine, but I have to be attracted to him in some way
6. Gentle and Kind
7. Clean (actually this should have come way  above)
8. Strong willed and caring.  If he is going to be my life partner, than I need to know that I can lean on him when necessary.
9. Generous - I can't stand a cheap man.  If I am doing for you, than I would appreciate you doing the same for me.

I guess I could come up with more, but the point is, ALL that I require or would like in a life partner, I am more than prepared to give it back.  So in other words, I won't ask for it if I'm not doing it myself...

Ok, your list is similar to mine, I think we both must be way past 35!!

Yes, Naomi, I am definitely past 35!   In my very early 40's (I mean I just made it through 40's gate)....  LOL  But it's all good.  I just really know what I want at this point (not saying I'm going to get it) but I'll settle for the 80/20 rule.  I mean no one's perfect right?

Since I am blessed to have found my LOL...(love of life).. here are the qualities he exudes..

1. Sincere
2. Sexy
3. FREAK to the core
4. Great Cook
5. Hygeine that is amazing but is still manly
6. Kooky family (lets me know he doest expect perfection)
7. Loved me at 314lbs...
8. Big dreams and is making his way though life
9. Strong and Masculine..
10. Understanding and not judgemental..

Love you KAS!! (shout out to my baby)

Hey cutie..you sound like you are very young and in your 20s, see my list USED to be a little like yours when I was around 25 !!...But trust me in WILL change in time, you love is very cute by the way you make a cute couple congrats!

 

Thanks...I really do hope that he is the one..I said no once to him when he asked me to marry him...but now that im 21..and we been dating for the past 3 years..I know I will say yes when he ask again..