Don't blame me for your poor food choices....

Brenda R.
on 10/14/09 5:29 am - Humble, TX
This is a sho nuff vent so if you don't wanna hear exit without reading.

Today is my work from home day so my sister comes over and begs me to go to lunch with her.  Begs because she insist on going to the Chinese Buffet near my house to which I reply (I don't go to buffets anymore b-cuz it is not worth it for me to spend that kind of money for a small portion).

I call the resturaunt and ask can I get kids meal ($4.95) to which they say no (guess looking at my size thinking this big biotch can eat more than kids meal) which I respond and say ok fine.  I will take a to-go meal box and weigh my food (ended up paying $2.98).

When I finish with the small portion I had, my sister is still going to town with about 3 plates in front of her.  Because I am done I am just looking and talking which musta been offensive to her because she just goes off, "Biotch don't be looking at my food like that you used to eat too, just because you had surgery don't make you better than nobody...yada yada yada).  I am thinking yeah I did eat that way and I really don't give **** what you eat, because its your fat arse suffering not mine"  

I hate when people just assume because you had surgery you are judging them.  Hell I could give two flying ***** about any fat arse out side of my own"  Moreover when people think you are acting "better than" maybe its because THEY think you are 'better than'

I ended up regretting even agreeing to go.  The only saving grace was seeing the managers face after I ended up paying less for the meal than I would have if he would have sold me the kid's meal, which I overheard him telling our server to watch to make sure I didn't refill, he looked like an idiot when he saw that I actually had left overs in the to-go container)  The look on his face priceless!!!!!!
     
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# 1 MACK_MAMA
on 10/14/09 5:32 am
  That is funny!!!!!

I haven't been to a buffet in YEARS!!!!  I don't go because the quality of food is usually sub par - shiot be dry or too this or too that - I prefer the individual dishes because they are usually prepared better.

I woulda shot that manager the middle fanga tho....

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Brenda R.
on 10/14/09 5:56 am - Humble, TX
LOL!!!!  Girl, this buffet is particularly good.  Better than most expensive Chinese establishments.  I have had better food there than any buffet ever.  But I can't get over her arse clowning me!!! 

That biotch is crazy!!!!! (But I do love her crazy arse! LOL)
     
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MSW will not settle
on 10/14/09 5:36 am
  Uh oh, sounds like that not so friendly green eyed monster.  It always comes around when you're working to improve yourself. 

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Brenda R.
on 10/14/09 5:58 am - Humble, TX
I guess so, she was never bigger than a size 5, even after her first child  (who is 15) but two years ago she had another baby and her arse blew the **** up (she is a size 14 now @ 5'1) so this is an adjustment for her.

I guess she is thinking I am going to treat her like she used to treat me.  But that is not even in me.  I used to be all kinds of fat ass this and that.  Oh how we see the error of our ways when we walk in the other person's shoes.
     
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Faith *
on 10/14/09 5:45 am
 I am really laughing so hard at the manager comment.   
 IDK why in the hell you let your sister get to you. You already know when she comes around more than likely something is going to happen

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Brenda R.
on 10/14/09 6:00 am - Humble, TX
You know her (and you know the place..LOL) but you are right she can **** me off easier than anyone in the World.
     
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on 10/14/09 7:41 am - syracuse, NY
Brenda you handled the situation well ...........first your sister accuses you ...then the manger accuses you ...good grief
Lifebeauty
on 10/14/09 8:48 am
I would love to have been there.  You handled it well.  Family ???  They are what they are and sometimes aren't happy with our changes but... they are family.

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