A woman's place and a man's responsibilities...........

So how man brothers do you think you just knocked out the equation w/ that type of attitude???

Do you think it would be okay to say look I want more than eggs and i'm able to go get the bacon, the OJ and all of that however i'm not going to continue to do this? You make your point and he does what he has to do in order to make that change....you still riding w/ him or you kicking him to the curb????

Would you date a man that works at McDonalds?

nope - would NOT date a dude working at Mickey D's.  If he were a GM of SEVERAL, then we can talk.

One thing I ALSO believe is that when a woman is with a man, that man should be elevating her in ALL aspects - when she marries, her life should IMPROVE in all aspects - that man should be adding TO her life, not meeting her where she is or certainly not behind her - in ANY aspect. 

Now - if he's working there while in Law School - cool - hit me after he graduates and gets on with a firm - cause that's where *I* am in MY life.

I don't want to compete with anybody and yes I have my own I work hard for it too. SO WHATTTT!!! if you only have eggs in you house that's you, and Hell to the  naw I ain't eating no dahum eggs. If you invite someone ovr you should be able to feed  them more than some dahum eggs.

And yes I'm gonna talk ish cause you need to come correct or don't come at all.

you missed out on the whole point....the eggs could be anything...it could be him riding the bus, it could be him working at McDonalds and all that.

Its the character that you should be looking at not the material things.

It's not solely the material things.   The material things are the product of the effort and drive of that man.

My material things are a result of MY effort and drive - so if his isn't matched - I gotta keep rolling!!!!  Hell NAW I ain't dating no bus riding ninja!!!!!!  Unless he lives in NY where driving is not the norm - HOLLA..... gotta..... GO!!!

See Mack that's where you wrong baby.....people can fall off, and just b/c he's not where you are MATERIAL wise at the moment doesn't mean anything. Now if he fall's off and doesn't get back up then your right....keep it moving! However if he fall's off and he does get back up and it might include him working at McDonalds then that says ALOT about that man...bottom line! I feel you do what you got to do and what ever works for you.

I've been involved with a ninja that 'fell out'..... when we met, homie was 6 figures in the mortgage industry - so you know what happened - things flipped REAL quick and I was the 'top earner' - but i stayed and did what a chick should - gutted it out.  Job searching, resume editing and printing, interview prep - hell - gas money to get TO the interview........

couple years later - things SORTA turnin around for him - this mofo gets a whiff of his own azz and decides he's going solo - and shows me his azz - left me stuck with his cell bill that was in my name and left me out cold one weekend when I asked him to REPAY me some $$ he owed so I could give my daughter lunch money........

So **** a dude that ain't right and ready NOW - I ain't working with SHIOT that ain't up to my level NO friggin MO.

Now we at the root of the problem.....

I feel you Mack.....do what you do sista....you'll get it!!!

Been hurt before...a woman scorn...I get it!!

and you know something else I meant to point out.....NONE OF THE MATERIALISTIC things mean nothing and dont show how strong my hustle or my drive is. They have NOTHING to do w/ my hustle or my drive. I could have won a lottery or just got some money from my folks OR sold dope to get it. Feel me?