OT: Seriously?? OMG - the game is dead!!!

Ah...I knew whenever I log onto BAF I can always count on a good laugh from the Mack.

If you just started dating on Match.com, prepare for a LOOONG bumpy ride, I got winks and emails from  black, white, Indian, middle eastern, purto rican, African, Hispanic, Jewish, and even guys lived in Europe, and South Africa..LOL, my Match.com experience was REAL interesting..LMAO.

I find ALL MEN to be the SAME regardless of ethic group or nationality. Jerks, hustlers, game players, and guys that ONLY want to get laid come in all groups. I have to admit it was sorta fun dating different guys and getting free dinner meals, I guess that could have been the reason why I never got to a normal BM I had so many dinner dates.

It took a awhile to learn the game and how to play it, since I was rusty from my divorce, but you are right on the money with the red flags, texting is a NUMBER one red flag, if a guy only wants to text then he is not worth dealing with, I WOULD NOT respond to text messages from a guy, if I was not important enough for a phone call then I would not communicate with him via text.

One tip though...if you are trying to cross over....please no offense you need to soften up a bit and don't be too hard on em....but be yourself; I had to weed through a lot of garbage before I found my knight in shining Armour, and it's not all about the physical looks, what I call a handsome man is...someone who makes a good salary, commitment minded, have  a nice  looking 401K, own property, have nice clean teeth, good hygiene, tall, loves their mom, that is what I call good looking especially after 40 they are out there...and I will give you advice if you are seeking a husband and not just someone to kick it with then you may want to look beyond the swagger and the bald head and jewelry and how good he looks in his jeans  -- also if you are seeking a white guy...stay away from the WIGGERS you can google that defintion..lol....aka white guys who act  and talk black..unless you are just seeking someone to just "kick it with"

Good luck out there in the dating world

hey Naomi!

Chile - first - I am who i am, Imma be who I is.  One thing i KNOW - the man FOR ME, will be able to handle that - I've met a couple and we are friends today.......if I fake the funk then jump fly - he'll be surprised at that side of me - so i gotta be me.

And I don't get ugly UNLESS and UNTIL they provoke it.  I would have very happily stayed disappeared if he hadn't jump fly with his lil 'text tantrum' - and you KNOW how I do - so if you step to me, BRING IT - I got PLENTY to say to give a piece of my mind and don't EVEN think you're going to get away with disrespecting me!  LOL - now, the dudes I cussed out Friday night.... only 1 really deserved it - but hell - the rest were for 'sport' - needed to know i still got my 'street chops'....

anyhoo - no bumpy Match ride for me.  My man will present himself to me and pursue me - I don't need to advertise, seek or shop around for him.  I'm learning a lot right now, I did a blog entry today on my frame of mind - so I'm good.......

ETA:  No you did NOT tell me to google 'Wigger'...... like I ain't already know that one..... LMAOOOO even if I didn't - not that hard to guess!  Gimme some IQ credit please!  I only PLAY like I'm crazy retarded...... I got a mind like a steel trap!!! 

 But I ain't making no promises about NOT cussin out any one of em that acts up!!!  I will NOT tolerate foolishness, disrespect, lying or weak game!!!!  NEVER AGAIN!!!!