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(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 7:27 am - Georgia Peach, MD

For all of you black women who are married to or in an interracial relationship (especially with a white man), how do you deal with the pink ding-a ling?

I'm serious, too.

If any of you have met my husband, you know that he is light...VERY light.....and much lighter under his clothes, but the thang ain't pink. The thought of a pink one scares me.

(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 7:35 am - Ann Arbor Charter Township, MI

RNY on 10/27/09

LMFAO @ Cookie!!!!!! My ex was white, and his 'ding-a-ling' wasn't pink, per se....but the, how can I put it...the....awww hell, the head was, LOL.
It worked just as good, if not better than some of the black men I've been with. I doesn't feel, or taste any different just to be honest. LOL HOWEVER I did see a white guy in a porn with 2 penises....I'll leave that alone, LOL

(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 7:40 am - Georgia Peach, MD

RNY on 06/27/03

~fainted~

Did you say two of them? You mean one for the ____ and one for the ____?

You crack me the hell up.

Destiny Fulfilled
on 9/29/09 7:35 am - Washington, DC

RNY on 01/07/08

If it's good, it's good no matter what color it is. JMO...

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Destiny_Fulfilled~

(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 7:38 am - Georgia Peach, MD

RNY on 06/27/03

...but how do you get past how it looks, Steph? I watched some porn with white men in it and it did NOTHING for me. If I ever jumped ship, he has to be at least brown Italian. lol.

Destiny Fulfilled
on 9/29/09 7:40 am - Washington, DC

RNY on 01/07/08

Cookie, i recently ended a relationship with a Rican. The only thing that would make me consider taking him back is the PENIS! It was Pink...yep, sure was...head and all. But when he penetrated, I instantly becaome color blind!!!!

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."

Destiny_Fulfilled~

(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 7:44 am - Georgia Peach, MD

RNY on 06/27/03

hmmmm, I may have to reconsider.

Hugga76
on 9/29/09 11:20 am, edited 9/29/09 11:23 am

RNY on 01/26/09

Stop yo nonsense cookie. You are happily married to the man who was chosen for you, who happens to be a black man. It just isn't that cut and dry for everyone......don't go look'n for trouble. lol

ETA: I tried back in the day but I just wasn't prepared to deal with the "pink" but now...IDK. If he's the one, he's the one.

Honeymoon Challenge!

(deactivated member)
on 9/29/09 11:35 am - Georgia Peach, MD

RNY on 06/27/03

It was a joke, Hugga. I do that a lot around here.

Dedee
on 9/29/09 4:04 pm - Home Is Where, The HEART is, Midwest

RNY on 09/30/03

I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)

My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)

       ~Dedee

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