OT: Married people and single people CANNOT be friends....

I should have added it's different guy/girl vs. straight on heffa-to-heffa.....

Yea yea yea....


And there is a difference from being single and carefree vs. single and got shat going on..


I'm single but I'm married to my son's school and social activites


So if my married friend can't hang out on Friday night because of her husband. I can't take my ass out because my son has football!!! So we even!!!

  now THAT'S funny!  I guess yall are even.........

I have ALWAYS dealt with "women" pretty much on a professional level.. (meaning) NO sleep overs or borrowing clothes, money,  etc or "hanging out in my house" whether married or single...lol...

This way...I tend to KEEP my friends and we share ideas and advice at times, women are very jealous and catty creatures by nature, so in real life I tend to keep my friendship with women with a long handle spoon...the only people that knows ALL of my business are my sisters...and I get REAL advice from them.

I met a girl at work a few months ago, (a sista) and we started hanging out going to happy hour and concerts together, this was BEFORE I got engaged to Erik, she would offer to pay for dinner when we went out, she would offer to get concert tickets and invite me to a lot of events....( this started freaking me out, hell I don't allow people to buy my friendship, one guy told me that she wanted to hang out with me only to "attract other men" and was using me for that reason, I was like WTH....SO...when I told her that I was seeing Erik and we were getting serious with each other...she STOPPED communicating with me, she NEVER return my calls and I have not heard from her since...I have no idea why....

I only have a few REAL friends that I have known since childhood and a few that I have known since I relocated, but I tend to keep friends that I can trust and we talk about things and I tend to keep friends that don't try to use me for personal gain...it's hard to have friends like that these days...but I DO think married women and single women CAN be friends you just cannot hang out with married women the same way you can with single women, when I get married I will STILL hang out with my best friends and we will continue to do things together the only difference is I just will not have as much time as I do when I am single.

 

Pssst - say dawg - take it from the 'bi' girl - ole girl was dating and trying to turn you.  I've pulled that move sucessfully a couple times.... LOL!!!!

Yeah MM:
I too was thinking that my girl was dating Naomi.

  so glad I ain't the only one peeping game!!!!  hahahahha

Hey..Mack. you may be on to something..that thought DID run through my head, because when we first met at work down in the lobby she complimented me on my eyes and wanted to know where I got my eye brows arched  and sometimes I wear eye lash extensions and when I do they make my eyes look really big...lol...so she wanted me to take her to the nail shop where I got them done and that conversation lead to us exchanging numbers....but interestingly enough...after we started to hang out...she NEVER mentioned getting her eyes done.....

Also one day she INSISTED on paying for my lunch during break and was telling me how I reminded her of one of her very cute friends..lol...I thought that was strange of her to say with just me and her sitting at the table together...I have never been approached sexually by a women so that thought never entered my mind...oopps take that back yes I have LMAO....about 15 years ago, one of my girl friends told me that she would do a threesome with a guy and wanted to know if I would be willing to try it....if I was interested in it would not have been with her......

By the way this reminds me..this is the same girl that was with me when I met Shani...Star Jones at a concert this summer

I guess I am rusty to all the games in 2009 and what women are up to these days
 

 @ the eye thing.  I think my first 'turnout' - I asked about her makeup and she fell for the bait.  And back then I was BUTCH than a mofo - boots, chain and baseball cap!!!  hahahhahahaha

That chick w/ the threesome - that's a FREAK not a bi-woman.  There's a difference.

but umm, yea slimmee - you were being courted and she got mad that you got distracted.  If she coulda kept you isolated and not dating - you woulda had your carpet 'cleaned'...... HAHAHAHAHA! 

@  MM    " you woulda had your carpet 'cleaned'...... HAHAHAHAHA! "