Planning to have a baby.....HELP!!!!

First and foremost I wish you the best. I found out about my suprise 7 months after my wls. I became a mother 4 months later. Explains why I was so sick lol. What you do in the dark will definitely come to light. I had my other two in my teens so motherhood as a full fledge adult has been an adjustment, but I wouldn't trade any of my blessings for the world. You will be happy, thank God you have someone going through it with you. Make sure you guys continue to have each other's back that's important. Definitely keep and open mind. You will notice a lot of things with this baby that you didn't with the others.

I appreciate all of the feedback. Yes, me and my guy are financially stable and can take care of a new addition.

But, sometime I think, maybe I just want to travel during this stage of our lives..idk..still debating.