O/T - Piggyback on #1 MM...question for the single folks

Yes I would date someone who had WLS.  Why?  because we are human first and have some identification in which an honest relationship can be formed. Which brings me to next question I am def a chick who believes in the commitment of marriage. Cant wait til boo gets here. 

Yes, I would also date a Post WLS man....as long as he had a good heart, mind and we were compatible...with similar interests, values and ahem labidos...believing in EXCELLENT personal hygiene...I would be all in.  It would be nice to be able to support each other in this challenging lifestyle...help each other remember from where we came.

I have  been approached several times privately since I have been a member of OH by black and white guys, but I honestly could NOT do it, I feel like this is "family" and I don't mix relationships with this type of online forum, I joke too much here, I can't discriminate because I have been morbidly obese myself, so it's not that I would not want to date someone that has had weight loss surgery, I really guess it depends on who it is... I do know that I would not be attracted to someone that looks "ill" OR  vomits alot...that would turn me completely off....I like big men tall men..but not sloppy fat or skin hanging that is a turn off for me, so I guess my answer is it really depends on who the guy is.... 

hi cookie!

Could you or would you date another person who had WLS?

absolutely cuz he already knows my struggle.
 
One more question - are you anti-marriage or pro-single?

both.  if you know yourself well enough to understand that though you could be, you prolly shouldn't be married then no need to experiment.   in thinking about whether or not i could, the answer is yes with the provision that he'd hafta live next door (seriously).