O/T - Piggyback on #1 MM...question for the single folks
2nd question first, I'm neither. Pro marraige all the way for me. There's nothing sweeter than a good marriage. There is also nothing worse than being in a bad marriage.
Now for question one. I love the idea of someone whose made the same commitment I have. Also, I've always found larger men attractive. A man post rny can offer me one less life style issue for potential conflict. I refuse to be involved with anyone who would be couter productive to my misson of getting to and maintaining a 'normal' BMI.
But... My panni does not hide the enterance to my secret garden. Therefore, I did not think about the fact that his panni may be an obstacle. Ms #1MM brought out that flaw in my thinking.
Comming from a fat person with oodles of extra skin, I know this sounds especially cruel. I do not want to have to unearth the 'family jewels' like I'm digging for burried treasure. That along with man boobs is a real turn off. He would have to have good genetics and/ or plastics.
Now for question one. I love the idea of someone whose made the same commitment I have. Also, I've always found larger men attractive. A man post rny can offer me one less life style issue for potential conflict. I refuse to be involved with anyone who would be couter productive to my misson of getting to and maintaining a 'normal' BMI.
But... My panni does not hide the enterance to my secret garden. Therefore, I did not think about the fact that his panni may be an obstacle. Ms #1MM brought out that flaw in my thinking.
Comming from a fat person with oodles of extra skin, I know this sounds especially cruel. I do not want to have to unearth the 'family jewels' like I'm digging for burried treasure. That along with man boobs is a real turn off. He would have to have good genetics and/ or plastics.
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V'N MY RNY. WORKING FOR ME BECAUSE I WORK FOR IT.
I am not anti marriage and I sho as hell ain't pro-single - too many damn bills to pay alone!!!!!
I stand by my previous answer about dating a post WLS mofo - I don't date big dudes neither - NEVER have.... well... there was that one - but THAT'S why I know I don't wanna!!!!! LMAOOOOO
I stand by my previous answer about dating a post WLS mofo - I don't date big dudes neither - NEVER have.... well... there was that one - but THAT'S why I know I don't wanna!!!!! LMAOOOOO
I don't just have issues, I have subscriptions! I'm saving on the newsstand price....... 
Check out my dating mis - adventures at: http://1macdatinggame.blogspot.com/
I would date another WLS person. Same reason as many have said; understanding the physical and mental issue that come with being a WLS patient.
I have not decided if I am anti-marriage or pro-single. My divorce was very easy but figuring out how to get my life," back on track", was really mentally draining for me. One day I will figure it out.
Ya'll pray for me,
Coolbreeze
I have not decided if I am anti-marriage or pro-single. My divorce was very easy but figuring out how to get my life," back on track", was really mentally draining for me. One day I will figure it out.
Ya'll pray for me,
Coolbreeze
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