Relationship Question

HelpMeRhonda !!
on 8/27/09 3:31 am - J. R. Ewing, TX

You'll who know me well knew when you saw this post it this wasn't about me.....

Okay I have a question......

Why is it when MOST women that are in a fairly new relationship they want to tell the world about it??
 
As everything is seemingly going great they can't wait to "spread" the news as to what this brother is doing for them (although it should be done anyway).

I have been a member of this site for 8 years and during that time I met my now husband, and the only thing I publicize on here was my "I's Married Now", post.

Even at my job where I have been employed for 10 years, most co-workers (60 employees)  didn't realize I was married until they saw a last name change on the email, heck some told me they didn;t even know I was in a realtionship.

The reason I ask is I have a friend girl who has been dating a brother for about a year she even change her myspace name to (****girl) and her facebook was always plastered with pics of what gifts he bought, etc....

Okay NOW they have broken up for some reason or another her status now says SINGLE and her user name is just her NAME., and to top it off she sent a mass text message stating she has changed her cell number and please don't ask why.... WTF???  My thing is if you didn't allow your relationship to be an open book we never would have known anything went down....

And yes I am bored at work today, but still want to know WHY do most women make their "Relationships" an open book??

SayWhat
on 8/27/09 3:42 am
Faith *
on 8/27/09 4:11 am

I would like to inform all of you that Rhonda is out to lunch and she will respond upon her return.

People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas. ~Author Unknown

HelpMeRhonda !!
on 8/27/09 5:13 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
Okay back from lunch... WOW 42 responses...

Trick azz ho's like yourself is the #1 reason I am a private person.  If your not any significant in my life there is very little about my private life I share.  My relationship is a close issue with ANYONE besides the person I am with, that includes momma's, daddies and trick azz bytches as yourself!!


I do not have a myspace - too old for that schitt..........
SayWhat
on 8/27/09 5:57 am
SayWhat
on 8/27/09 6:27 am
talisha26
on 8/27/09 3:46 am
Good question....I think it depends on the person. Most of the girls I run with are really private with relationships. My little sis is getting married and everyone at church is like...........to who?? Didn't realize he's in church every Sunday too but that's just how she rolls....discreet.

Sometimes, women are so happy to be in a relationship they go overboard. I really feel sorry for her cause she looks like a fool to everyone else.

Do you think she'll keep her mouth shut next time? Or now will she have something else to prove?
When nothing else could help................LOVE lifted me!!!!
HelpMeRhonda !!
on 8/27/09 5:14 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
The odd thing about this person is she is "46" years old and twice divorcee I am hoping after this mess she will learn.
The One
on 8/27/09 3:49 am - Houston, TX
My mom has always told me that whatever your man/husband does for you, keep it to yourself. Whatever he buys for you is your business. If you tell your business some women get jealous and want what you have. SO SHUT YOUR MOUTH!!!!
I'm like you Ms Rhonda I don't tell nothing. I don't tell nothing the only way they find out is when they see us together. It's nobodies business. If you make  your business public then the public  will run with it. The funny thing is when they break up they can't stand his AZZ now everybody knows that too.
CUM ON GIVE ME A BREAK. AGAIN SHUT UP!!!!
    
HelpMeRhonda !!
on 8/27/09 5:17 am - J. R. Ewing, TX

I always seek advice from older mature women, like your mother which is WHY I am a private person. Believe me it to some years to get to this level.

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