RELATIONSHIP QUESTION #2 ***** STAY OUT MY MARRIAGE

If you were in a relationship/marriage with someone and they had a friend that you hated, would you expect them to drop that friend if said friend was causing problems in the relationship?


I personally would think that if this person was causing problems in my relationship their ass would have to go.  But my friend seems to think it would be selfish of me,  I don't know how that is selfish if someone is trying to save their relationship/marriage from an outsider.


WHAT SAY YOU ????

AM I BEING NAIVE?

Nobody comes before my husband.  Period.  He feels the same way.  Anybody who would threaten our marriage would be cut off with a quickness. 
 

Thank You,   that is just what I say.    This girl is new in their lives and she is causing all kinds of problems and  i'm wrong for saying she needs to go.  

Not all friends are good friends.

Pleaaassse that ***** needs to go.    

I agree with Sue that person would have to go even if itment somebodys feelings were hurt

They gotta go! No stress, no drama!

Please - IF I finally DO get married and ain't gotta pay all these bills my myself.... I WISH A MOFO WOULD try to come in between me and a split payment!!!!!

Keep it rolling - just rewind back to the point before she was in ya life, make a right and continue forward.......

Mama I love your response....cu!

Please - IF I finally DO get married and ain't gotta pay all these bills my myself.... I WISH A MOFO WOULD try to come in between me and a split payment!!!!!

Love the way you think!!!!!!!! 

Exactly but she is arguing that it is lowering yourself if you force your mate to give up friends.   But this wench is all up in their relationship and every single time she calls ole girl is pist the **** off and i'm like you need to tell her to cut that ***** off, but she says i'm being immature because friends are hard to come by.

I say this girl is a new friend and why the hell should she mess up your marriage for a new friend. 

Lesbian drama is so dam annoying.

MM would you demand that your husband cut off his friendship with this chick.   Even if he was telling you **** like, but I like her and she is a good friend.  

Wouldn't **** like that make you want him to cut it off even faster?