Would you tell someone they need shapewear?
Would have you have wanted someone telling you that before you had your WLS? She knows she's jiggling. Now your auntie pulling you aside is something else entirely. That is someone who loves you and is teaching you about those types of things. Your co-worker just might think you'd gotten all high and mighty since you had your surgery...you know stuff like that can come off. She may not be aware that you are wearing it either. Leave it alone. Why let it bother YOU?
Leave it alone. A co worker is not your friend. She may be content with her look and she has every right to be sloppyIf it does not conflict with the job.
I was in a similar situation. One woman, me on an all male team. A second woman came on board who could not fit her bra for the sake of life itself. She was big chested and sloppy looking. The guys asked me to talk to her because it was embarrasing them when one of us was not put together. (The most vain straight men you could ever know.) I declined politely because it is not my job to get her dresed.
We all traveled together 95% of the time. What I did do was invite her when I was going shopping during our off hours. I brought up places I was going that had quality bras and fittings. She did not take the hint, she did not like to shop.
Now I liked her just fine but why should I care about her bra? If she wants to look like a cow with her hanging udders so be it. It has nothig to do with me.
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Also to answer your question it would depend on how well I knew the person. I am not sure that I would talk to a co-worker about that, that I didnt know really really well.
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