Flipping the Script

Have you ever had someone to suddenly stop speaking to you?  Like you did something to them, but you know you didn’t?   
How do you react?   

Do you just write them off or do you ask them about it? Do you wonder if you broke some unwritten rule and offended them? Do you wonder if they had hidden agendas in their previous interactions with you and you’re just now seeing their true face? 
 

YEP!  Have had this happen SEVERAL times in my life - after the LAST ninja to do it - I don't even trip no mo!!!!!

I had a BEST friend - I mean BEST - we would talk for HOURS everyday, spent time at each other's cribs - even had CHRISTMAS at my mama's house!!!!  One day - POOF!  she was gone, no more phone calls, never responded to any emails - NOTHING.  I was crushed.  I still to this day have no idea why she stopped talking to me.  That hurt my heart for real.  I even went out of my way to find her new mailing address and sent her a card about friendship and missing her - no response to that either. 

So today - I say F-it.  Mofos in my life know how I am and how I roll from jump - if they leave, I just chalk that ish up and keep rolling - obviously THEY have a problem.  Either they are too chicken ish to come to me and work it out, or they feel that I ain't worth time in their life...... either way - time to keep it moving. 

Have you ever had someone to suddenly stop speaking to you?  Like you did something to them, but you know you didn’t?   

Yep, a good friend freaked out on me last year. Told me that she realized that I wasn't a TRUE friend. Well, at least by her definition. You see, I wasn't the friend that would allow her to come over to my home at all hours of the night, eat up my food, suck up my central air, gave her money...blah, blah, blah...I can go on.

How do you react?   

I replied to an old email - replied to all. I told her to grow a pair.

Do you just write them off or do you ask them about it? Do you wonder if you broke some unwritten rule and offended them? Do you wonder if they had hidden agendas in their previous interactions with you and you’re just now seeing their true face? 

I just wrote it off. She flipped out on her Moms several days later and she was kicked out. I don't have time for nonsense anymore. All she did was complain about not having a job (she quit), not having benefits, cheating boyfriend (told her to do a background check - still married) and blah, blah, blah.

Heffa had the nerves to tell me that I was trying to lose weight to get a man...WTF??? I already had one....dayum....my blood pressure just shot up....WOOOSSAAHHHH.

If you're having this problem, keep your sanity and walk, no run away.

I've had that happen to me and at this point in my life.

SEE YA WOULDN'T WANNA BE YA!!!!  I'M OUT.....

Just tells me you are really not a friend. You won't have my back if something went down. So I don't need or want people like that.