I know yall will tell me if I am trippin......

 dang did KIM just slap me upside my head???  WOW!!!!

LOL - I know I SHOULD - but man it's a TRIP!!!!!  I JUST bought new undies and am wearing the CUTE ones........ lol

if it's not model perfect, you need to cover it up!!!!!


MODELS are not model perfect!    Girl, you know they air brush all that stuff.

That being said, I'll confess that  I'm a little self-conscious about back rolls too.  I don't wear form fitting stuff unless it's "strategically" designed to give me a decent and somewhat smooth appearing silhouette.  It doesn't have to be perfect, but I don't want to look shar pei lumpy either.

My stomach will never be flat. 

Life goes on and I'm still cute. 

you make a good point - I remember that shot of the Khardasian chick that got out of her pre-airbrushed - all the cellulite and everything.........

trippin

free yourself, do you and "rock ya thang"

Girl, I totally understand where you are coming from!   Especially since I only had a panniculectomy and NOT a tummy tuck.  So even though I knew my schitt wasnt gonna be flat, it STILL bothers me sometimes that I have this big ol' muffin top : )   But then I have to remember that I dont have that 15 pound flap anymore and just try to be thankful for that.

But to be honest, you already looked great before you even had the re-do... so FLAUNT and ENJOY!!! 

it STILL bothers me sometimes that I have this big ol' muffin top

Dayum! Dayum! Dayum this big ol' muffin top! 

   sometimes I say its not just a muffin---its the WHOLE PAN of Cohnbread  LOL

i didn't read past the title..whatever it is you trippin thats just a given..lol

Imma need you to READ before you REPLY to me heffa!!!! 

Um.........I don't know...........I understand how you feel. This Saturday was the first time I've ever worn my arms out period. I had the nerve to have on a halter dress too!! My hubby talked me into it but it was 95 degrees and the African-world festival in Detroit = thousands of black folks in the hot sun for hours. I always wear jackets to cover my arms. Now at dinner I was uncomfortable but walking around the festival and seeing folks 10x my size with their arms out - no bras.......I felt so much better.

It's still a part of me that feels like......I will never go sleeveless again......than the other side that feels like.........I deserve this! I've worked hard to get where I am.

I don't know.....I just understand your struggle.