OT - That's what "friends" aren't for...

 @ I told you a while back to tell that nicca to get his own dayum porn pics....now he coming atcha for some actual coochie hook-ups...right? Cut his horny azz off...like yesterday! 

Please believe...  If I gotta hook somebody up on some outright coochie then our friendship is over and done with right then and there, because I can't have you chillin with me out in public looking like some crazy deranged horny in-bred step-child that I keep locked away like they did "The Gimp" from Pulp Fiction.   

I guess because I'm somewhat outgoing I can't just have a circle of only 3 people.  I can flow with multiple circles but even those have to have a larger number than three.  But then again I don't have all of my circles knowing everything that I do in the other circles either. 

 

 "guess because I'm somewhat outgoing I can't just have a circle of only 3 people.  I can flow with multiple circles but even those have to have a larger number than three.  But then again I don't have all of my circles knowing everything that I do in the other circles either.  "

My Mom always told me to never let the right hand know what the left hand is doing....I didn't understand what she was referring to at the time however with age that statement is now clearer!

I eliminate toxic friends/associates from my life as soon as I get wind of their toxicity!

Along the same lines are those who profess to "love you to death" and the first chance they get, you feel that knife in your back cutting deeply, twisting, turning.  Not because of anything you may have done...nawww.  Just because.  Period. 

The solution? While you CAN choose your friends, I guess some of us need to choose more wisely.  

 

*drops the mic...exits: stage left*

 @ Just because.  Period.

See that right there is what get's me almost demonic.  For example (trust me this is purely hypothetical and freshly pulled outta thin air with nooooo real basis whatsoever), we all either had WLS or are going to have WLS.  What sense does it make for us as friends to be all "Man you're doing great...  Keep up the good work, Dawg..." and then go off with our seperate cliques on here and talk ish, trash each other, belittle each other's progress - Just because. Period.

What happened to the rule: "If you ain't got nothing nice to say then don't say nothing..."?

My motto is Once bitten twice shy........life is too short for drama and extra added BS......after a senerio like that I'd still speak my hi and goodmornings but thats it...I intend to live a fullfilling life and there isnt much room for negativity in my life.

 @ I'd still speak my hi and goodmornings but thats it...

Black women, y'all are the best at that.  Y'all will mask the true nature of your feelings about another woman through all of that "I still spoke and said hi" malarkey.  Not us black men though.  If you've done us wrong then we ain't even gonna try and "still speak and say hi" 

Fugg dat! 

Ninja, you'd better head off in the other dayum direction when I see you, cause I might just have to open up a couple of cans of whoop azz right there in the break room at work and get Medival on your azz.  (Yeah I watched Pulp Fiction the other night and the numerous references are now stuck in my head )...

I am not the type to hold this type of anger in my heart.......but I would like to be the fly on the wall when they finally catch a clue that they been bumped and I didnt miss a beat in my stride ...priceless

I cut them loose and let them go.

But see, Faith, you'd give a Ninja mixed signals and stuff because you'd be over there smiling the whole time you'd be telling me off.  I gotta see ya get angry and frown... and pout maybe.  Now bite your bottom lip just a little...  mmm...  uh huh...  Yeah... like that.  Now do the "two snapps" from side to side and put your hands on your hip, uh huh...  while you stand there resting on one of your heels with your manicured painted toes pointing up.  I imagine you wearing a dress.  Frown a little more and now lick your lips...  

Uh...  what was the question again?