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HelpMeRhonda !!
on 8/11/09 9:16 am - J. R. Ewing, TX
There is nothing wrong with others encouragement when they are trying, HOWEVER my wording would be choosen very wisely...

A great example is  someone who has lost xxx pounds BUT automically assume they would look cute in something...ughhhh NO. Even at my smallest I NEVER, NEVER NEVER NEVER would put on short shorts....

WHY??? Because I have some cellulite on the back of my legs that will make you .. Cellulite is NOT CUTE regardless if your size "2" or "42". Even at my smallest I never would wear anything that cling to my belly, which is why people were shocked when I showed them my BEFORE pics before my tummy tuck, thank god for plastic surgeons .
Phatlexus
on 8/11/09 7:59 pm - Grace Land, MD

Rhonda I'm the same way there have to come to the knee the same as with a dress...........I hear all the time show your legs I'm like Please I know better...........When I see other's they look a HAM (HOT AZZ MESS)

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on 8/12/09 12:21 am - Sweet Dreams lives in , PA
 Nope...not me...I don't say a word...unless its my BFF or a family member. First thing the person will think...especially if they are full of themselves is that you are jealous. Naw...not worth the hassle.
wendy T.
on 8/12/09 3:08 am - Milwaukee, WI
 I am cracking up....I do compliment, and I am sincere when it's needed otherwise. I keep my mouth shut.
   Commit to the Lord whatever you do and your plans will succeed (Proverbs 16:3)
    
mrs. neenaj
on 8/12/09 5:28 am
I just can't tell someone they look a mess unless it's my kids or hubby. LOL   I will have to find something to compliment even if it's not the hair. I would say, "I bet it would look even better when you style it yourself, at least that's how my hair does" hahaha

As far as style, I can't say anything to anybody because my kids and hubby says that I dress like I'm from "Little House On The Prairie"   I need help on how to dress for a 42 yr old and how to get my hair out of a frizzy ponytail. I guess I feel no right to tell anyone how to dress because I look a Hot Mess myself.

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Danielle S.
on 8/12/09 9:49 am - Battle Creek, MI

I use to just lie to them and keep it moving. Now days I tell the truth....people call me out all the time, so I feel its my duty to do the same. Payback is a *****!

Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself Each day has enough trouble of its own.' Matthew 6:34

              
Meso Thin
on 8/12/09 3:05 pm
Yeah, I know whatcha mean .....

But if I love somebody (and that means
all wls peeps) cause I know the struggle.

I am always sincere when I tell em they look
great, cause I'm talking relative to where they
came from and the battle they have waged.

Shyt, I need the same kind of mercy when it comes
to judging cause I know I'm a dime .... but mostly in the
wls world.  lol
Meso Thin
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