OT:the "Get Back"..........

Oh - I know what you mean - however - I have been known to go to GREAT lengths to control the get back.......

for most things, I let it go - not worth my mental energy, but for SOME mofos....... I GOTTA GET EM!!! 

Mack,
I'm not a "get-you-back" kinda person per se.  However, I am a firm believer in karma and what you put out there will definitely come back to bite you in the arse.  BUT, I don't forget.  I'll cut you off in a heartbeat if I feel like you tried to hurt or make an ass out of me in any fashion. 

And when the universe gives you back a double dose of you schitt I'll be standing there with a smug look on my face .


ETA:  That's not to say that if the opportunity presents itself to me I won't take advantage .

I'm just not going to put forth any energy to it.

I am way to old at this point to be holding on to crap,  I won't forget who did me wrong but I'm not looking for revenge. 

I just limit their access to me and stop doing favors. 

I used to be on some revenge crap back in my hay day......

now a days Im just cutting folks at the knee caps....Cause Im getting too old to remember who did what,where why and how .......
The older wiser me has learned to say  seeeeee ya  and keep it moving

Naw....I can't be waitin in the bushes trying to get somebody back.  Life is too short.  My philosophy is "what goes around, comes around".  Trust me, they will get their's in the end, one way or another!  I've seen it happen too many times to name. 

Over the years, I've learned to just "let it go" and move on.  Too much stress for me.

I have learned not to hold on to things when people do things to me. I try my best to forgive them and move on.

HOWEVER!

My ex of 6 years just did something that made me want to get back at him something terrible. Here's the story.....we have been broken up for a year, but decided to remain friends (I know big mistake). So being that we were friends I decided to share with him the fact that I met a guy, and we are really into eachother. All of a sudden he got a major attitude, mind you he has a girlfriend also. He and I were really only friends...nothing more nothing less. So he started tripping on me, he wouldnt answer my calls, started playing on my phone. While he is doing all this his g/f he getting upset b/c shes like "well you must still be in love with her, or it wouldnt matter." Needless to say things start falling apart with them, and next thing I know I get a call saying "you ruined my life im going to ruin yours too." Im like what the hell did I do? Anyway this MF called my job and told them I was having a relationship with one of my patients. Luckily my boss didnt believe him, but still...I was like how low! All b/c I moved on and started dating someone. It was over between us, no  kissing, no booty calls, no nothing. We had not even been face to face in atleast 11 months.

Lord knows, if I would have been close to him I think I would have gone to jail that day. I am still struggling with wanting to kill him, but so far so good. lol! If I can forgive him for that.....I think everyone should be able to forgive the person that has wronged them.

  you are gooder than me.  yea - I said that **** right.

The fact that mofo ain't live near me would have been perfect reason to execute a 'covert' op - with a good girlfriend as my alibi..........

Life is too short,  let it go ..... move on