OT:the "Get Back"..........

I use to be a "Watch your back for the rest of your life mofo", however , with time and maturity I really don't hold on to trash like that anymore.

My thing is I can simply "ignore" a mofo for the rest of my life and that to me will bother the person more in the long run.

Ditto to what Rhonda said.


And ummm...Rhonda...I am officially scared of you Ms. Thang!  Lookin HOT! in that pic girl!

Thanks Kim!!!

Hubby and I were just playing with the camera in the hotel room this weekend, you KNOW I didn't step out on the room with my flesh showing...lol

Rhonda

You know yo azz stepped out the room showing some skin LOL 


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LMAO @ Free!!!

10 years ago yes I MAY have tried, now NOPE.

Girl, one of the best pieces of advice that my mama gave me  & I happily pass along to others is that forgiviness is for "YOU", not for the person that has wronged you.  That is an important part that people don't understand.    1:  When you do dirt, God can't forgive you, if you are holding unforgiveness for others.  2:  9 out of 10, those people you have an aught against either don't have a clue about your aught or could care less.  So, here you are wasting your time thinking about them, plotting and scheming & they have gone on and are living their lives, but you sure are wasting your life thinking about them.  So, the only person this is impacting is YOU.  3: It has been scientifically proven that unforgiveness & hate causes illnesses.  So, you are wasting time & energy on retribution, that which in the long run will give you a hollow victory......but for what?

Believe me, I have had to put this into play plenty of times, especially after a heifer lied on me & got me fired a few years ago.  I had to do a LOT of forgiving over the last 2 years, as I had her all kinds of mutilated & dead at first.  But God took what the enemy met for evil & turned it into good.  Cause my previous employer is the one of the major players in the govt bailout.  Let God fight your battles, cause no one can give payback better than he can!!

i dont even know what this means..lol..HOWSOMEVA

you KNOW da heyl 'howsomeva' means!!!!

quit tryna be UPPITY!!!  LOL 

LOL

i would like to say "let it go" as holding onto sheeit will make you sick and i guess that is why i suffer daily......i am so working on it......

what haunts me is "how do you forgive someone who has viciously hurt you?" how do you forget? I can't and it plagues me in my sleep.......no i don't plot...it is a waist of time but, the energy i deal with i can't seem to controll if that makes any sense....so seriously if you can control not giving into payback trust me mm run and live your life sweetie it is so not worth it......